Boyfriend wants to move away from where we stay – I don’t?

I have been with my bf for 4 years. He will be graduating next summer, I will be graduating the year after. When he graduates he wants to move to a bigger city and has expressed he really wants me to go with him – I have explained I will be graduating the following year and can’t we wait? He said he really would like to move and thinks I should look into other master programmes at universities outwith where we stay. I also told him I may not be able to afford to move (he gets 1 year of probationary work so he is guaranteed work and pay). I said I would have to find part-time work whilst still studying and he said “no I will have enough money to support us both”. I dont really fancy that, plus I think I will miss my family and friends insanely. I told him this and he said “I will miss my family too but we will be doing it together”. I am really unsure – my bf can be very impulsive and not think things through and I am worried he will just up and leave.

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  • Don’t do it if you dont want it 1% yourself! Otherwise you’ll regret it later (and I know what I am talking about). Especially when your bf is rather impulsive you shouldnt rush a decision!! Take your time and tell him that youre not deciding it right away, think all your options through.
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  • Don’t ever put your education on the back burner for any man. No matter what he says he will do and how things will work out. Look out for who’s number one first and that’s you.

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