Can friend be the one?

Hi, I am In a quandary about my ex best male friend. We caught up a couple if years ago after knowing each other as kids and were both going thru divorce. We became very close friends, occasionally sleeping together if we’d had a night out. Neither of us was ready for a relationship. We both have kids and became a huge support to each other, having long phone calls and DVD and pizza night in. To cut a long story short I started dating a man and my friend announced he was jealous. I was happy because I couldn’t get him off my mind while on these dates. It made me realise it was him I loved and wanted. However after a week I got scared, I felt so in love with him but didn’t want to risk losing him as a friend if it didn’t work out. I’ve been very hurt before and I think he was still in love with his ex. He was very upset and we broke off contact i was devastated but tried to move on. I started a relationship with the other guy, being honest about what had happened. But my ex friend has never left my mind. He text to see if we could be friends again in July and I said that it wouldn’t be fair on my boyfriend as he knew the history. He said he was seeing someone too if that helped. I said no again as it was unfair. I have had to recently end my relationship partly because I still feel in love with my ex friendI question if he wants me too if he contacted me while in a relationship, maybe he feels the same? Do I contact him , I hear he’s single.

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  • Not Sure if he’s the one. do think you should take the risk to contact him

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