Can marriage counseling really help?

After 5 months a confession of seeing (not bedding) another woman and staying over her home every weekend for 3 months. I am not a fool I know there was sex involved. And now he’s having a female classmate sending her pics and leaving texts on his cell callinghim sweetie and hun.

The first woman I showed up in front of her house and she quickly stopped seeing him and now theres this girl from school who he claims is just his friend but I don’t know for sure.

Well I sent her back a text like I was him on his cell telling her I think that my wife suspects us of an affair and the next day he is talking about counseling. What do you all think.

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  • it has not worked for me but you never know-

    as for his little flirtations??? i would be cautious-where there is smoke there is usually fire-if you trust him then it shouldn’t matter but since you obviously don’t, then i think you need to talk with him and try the counseling my experience, if you don’t try then you somehow get blamed in the end-so try and maybe you will be surprised.

  • Walk. He won’t be changing anytime soon. Sounds like a dog to me.

  • this question reminds me of a joke…

    How many psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb?

    answer: 1, but only if he realy wants to change!

  • He clearly has no respect for you. Dump this loser and move on with your life. He will never change.

  • you shouldn’t have to deal with these women. this man is not worth your efforts

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