My wife left me last year (December 31 2010). In Feb 2011 she contacted me and said she made a mistake and wanted to come back home. I didn’t allow her to come home at that point. In June 2011 I contacted her and we attempted to reconcile. However, after she moved back in I found out that she had left me for her boss at work. To make things worse I caught her calling him and texting him at all hours of the early morning. Long story short she refuses to leave the job with him and tells me she loves me but is not in love with me. I have tried to communicate my displeasure with her continuing to work with him but hit a brick wall every time. Please tell me what all this means?
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When her boss wouldn’t leave his wife the way he said he would she had all ready left you and
in order to make it work she had to come back to you.the boss now has no interest in her
and she still work es for him but no sex.How can she say she loves you when when she is
still in love with her boss.I would ask her to move out and file for divorce as she is just using
you so she has a place to sleep because the boss dumped her.
Apparently, your wife is flat out refusing to make the marriage work. The clearest signal or me is when she admitted that she loved you but was not in love with you. Then what is the point of being married? The fact that she is still communucating with her boss just finalizes it all. Time for you to move on.
It means that you are a very patient man and your wife does not deserve you. There are so many women out there who would love to have a guy like you and she does not feel lucky by having you in her life. She wants it all but that’s not how it works. She will cheat again and again and again. If she is not in love with you, she cannot be your wife. She cannot possibly love you and treat you that way.
Put your foot down! She has to choose right now, right here. Next time you see her face to face you tell her that. & if she can’t decide then BOOM you are gone forever. If that happens you need to find yourself a great girl, they are out there waiting for a great guy! But I really do hope she decides to stick with her husband & if she does want to stay with you…. then she will have to make sacrifices to make it right. NUMBER 1 CUT OFF ALL CONTACT WITH THE OTHER MAN & NEVER SPEAK TO HIM OR SEE HIM AGAIN. Straight up, it must be done. She will have to quit her job right there. I don’t care if she wants to put in her 2 weeks, she ****** up & ****** up bad. & she needs to realize that. Quitting her job will not be the end of the world. There’s more out there. So ya just stick up for yourself and make her choose & if she’s not willing to choose, make it easy for her & leave her & move on!
She wanted to come back home because she had no place else to go. Don’t continue to be her rebound. She didn’t make a mistake,: it was a decision. Put her on the road for good because it seems you can no longer trust her and she has no respect for you.
Is her boss married ?
If he is that’s why she is forced to come back to you
He is not prepared to have her full time
So its only the sex on his part
She is infatuated by him hence she wont leave her job
You would be best to let her go
You should,nt take her back knowing this
It means you are being used. Put that woman out immediately. She’s still cheating on you. The boss apparently didn’t want anything but free sex from her. Let him have it. Move on. She’s a cheater.
It means she needs to get the fvck out!
Sorry bro you’re going to have to get rid of her. There’s nothing you can do to get your trust back
Time to divorce.
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