ok my ex and me broke up and when we started talking about getting back together he out of no way tells me he dnt think its a good idea cuz he had a crush on my best friend so he wasnt going to talk to either of us cuz he didnt want to cause problms between our friendship. well that went on for quit some time and one day my friend comes up to me and asks me if i would get mad if they dated. although it hurt me i told her to go ahead. they had went out for maybe 3 weeksbefore this incident im about to tell you about happened. well 2 wks ago my ex and i finally started talking again. well last week he showed up at church in a bad mood so i asked him if he wanted to talk and he said yes. so i walked outside and met him and while we were outside he kept looking at me and saying stuff like i cant stop staring at your boobs so when i turned around so he wouldnt he said that didnt help any cuz he could still stare at me ace.. well anyways he told me he still wanted me but he wasnt going to break up with my friend for me but he was still going to break up with and now he refuses to talk to me or my friend…. what are your opinions about this situation cuz im totally confused right now and i seriously want to cry
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alrighty, first off don’t cry hun, he isn’t worth it. guys = suck, believe me i am one and have done my fair share of messed up stuff. it really seems as if he is confused as hell, and more than likely just tested the waters. at first i gave him credit for saying he wouldn’t mess with either of you. but after the church thing, seems like he is after something in particular. if i were you, i’d attempt to stay friends the female friend, and just don’t bother with him anymore. its no fun i know. but do it for yourself, no one deserves that kind of mind job.
This guy doesn’t sound worth your time. There are plenty of other guys out there who will treat you right and love you for you, rather than your figure. Just let out a good cry, eat some ice-cream, and tell him to hit the road.
Good luck! I feel your pain – it’s difficult sometimes to let go, but sometimes it’s for the best.
Source(s): Personal experience
It sounds like this guy is just playing games, and let me tell you his not the only guy in the world. What you need to do is ignore him and move on. I can tell you from experience that men hate when they are ignored. You need to show him that you respect yourself. By being with him your letting him know that its not wrong what he did and he will just do it again. Be strong girl things happen for a reason.
i know this is easier said then done but stop talking to him……he is not in any way shape or form worth your tears. and you deserve a better friend. YOU are a great friend and would be a great girlfriend because you gave your consent to someone that u call a friend to date somenoe you cared about. if either of them were thinking about your feelings they would not have crossed that line. you are a mature woman and i pride you in that. walk away from this. even if it takes all of your strength, BELIEVE ME i have been there
I know it can be incredibly painful, but this guy doesn’t sound like such a great guy. As tough as it may be, try to forget about him. He sounds like a jerk.
they both wrong but just appreciate him for telling u the truth and maybe he is seeing someone else now.
“No man is worth crying for because if he is, he wont make you cry” smart lady
Move on!! he is a loser! duh.