I have no idea what to do at this point. We only went out for a month and a half. It has been three weeks since we broke up. Lots of things were said and promises made during the relationship that made the both of us think it was more than it was…. I broke up with her because I didn’t feel the relationship was heading in the right direction and simply did not want to be with her and she has been txting me nonstop for 3 weeks and has been calling from private numbers. txting and saying all random things, cursing me out, insulting me, saying things about my ex girlfriends….
Today I received 160 txt messages from her and had 2 missed calls from private numbers. She has been calling me every name under the sun, is in denial, telling me how I should pray she is not pregnant because she is keeping it, how if her brothers found out what I did to her they would castrate me??? I’m becoming infuriated and this is really stressing me out. What do I do? I have obviously told her to stop contacting me. I stopped responding to her for over a week etc.. what can I possibly do? I doubt the cops would do or anything b/c she hasen’t tried to contact me in person… I also still live at home during college with my parents, dog, sister, her husband, and my niece… so I need to be concerned about them at this point.. have no idea how far this girl is going to take things. It’s going to get to the point that she is upset longer than we actually went out for.
11
✅ Answers
? Favorite Answer
Become more crazy than she is. Then she will want YOU to leave her alone.
Problem solved!
Hey, ya gotta laugh. This girl is a scream. <laughs for 5 minutes straight>.
OK, I guess laughing at you isn’t going to solve your problem. First of all, you need to find the humor in the situation. <Waits for asker to find humor>. Laughed yet? Hope so, Because I’m continuing even if you haven’t laughed. But you should.
Next, the cops ARE going to help you. If you think she’s going to endanger your family, contact law enforcement. Just say that your ex has been harassing you, and you need to have a restraining order put on her because you are worried about what will happen to your family if she comes to your house.
This girl may have problem: alcohol, drugs, et cetera. She could really be dangerous. In which case, she’ll need to be put either in rehab or behind bars.
Finally, another reason to find humor in the situation: eventually, if she keeps up this whole 160 texts per day thing, she’s going to go broke and won’t be able to text or call ANYONE <Laughs>
Hope this helps, and good luck handling this psycho:
-Elizabeth 😀
She sounds like a stalker, and text bombing as we call it in nz is illegal. What we have to do is not reply to the messages for 7 days, and then it can be reported. It is also considered harrassment and you can get a protection order against her which prohibits this sort of behaviour.
I promise you the cops will be more than happy to help, you’d think they’d have more important things to do but they take this sort of thing very seriously. it is psycological abuse and they are there to protect and serve. Also may be a good time to change your number and not give it to anyone that could pass it on to her. Best of luck to you
Source(s): I also have a crazy ex that is harrassing me, i’m going to the family court tommorrow to get a protection order as we have a child together and this is really stressing me out.
Unless you want to open an old wound I strongly suggest not responding to her. Although you may care about her you and her are “ex’s” for a reason. She is obviously referring to your former relationship and perhaps to ease her conscience she thought she’d give you a heads up before you heard it from someone else and also wants to ease her conscience to speak to you and hear your reaction and make excuses for what she did. If she cared she would have asked your permission and/or given you a heads up prior to doing the show. Don’t give her the satisfaction of contacting her.
block her number from your phone. If she calls this much from her friend’s phones, hopefully they’ll slap some sense into her. If she made an actual threat against you or your family, then keep that text and bring it to the police station- should be enough for a restraining order.
Keep all records of her contacting you in case you need it later on if you have to press charges.
If she keeps contacting you, you should seriously consider changing your phone number.
Change you #.
lovehimf and pogo peeps it’s a guy talking about a girl
block her! I did that to my ex!
please answer my question
Change your number….
Block her. (sorry – I hadn’t read the whole thing as the answer seemed obvious).
✅ Answers
List__actionBtn___41DEf”>Show more answers (1)