i’m having this fling with a guy who came for a 3 months training. we agreed to keep everything a secret and not show anything that could reveal our after work affair.
we both are attracted to each other and confessed that this is just for fun. last night we had this over the top kissing and teasing session. it carried on and on.we did everything but no sex. Anyway he didn’t have condoms. we were suppose to meet again today after work at my place for some fun time.he even came into work early so that we can leave early from work. being stupid, i just text him in the afternoon to ask if he was coming over tonigh since he said that he would love to have dinner at my place. he replied saying that he has got some reports to finish up (considering he’s from a different part of the world and needs to submit some reports before it gets late). and he also said that he has to catch up on some emails. not only that, he said that he cant make it on thursday since he already has some plans with the guys at work. Then he told me we could catch up on friday but maybe.
whats wrong ? i feel like i turn him off.is he just testing my patience?
Update:
i am just having fun too.he’s such a flirt and would like to spend more time..
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Trust me. Whatever it is you guys had it lust. If he has an excuse for every day of the week. Really?….you guys treat each other like a quick hand job and a dry hump. That’s what lust is and you just got emotional.
He doesn’t sound like he wants an affair + dinner if you know what I mean.
If he is teasing your patience then he’s doing a good job. Go with it..whatever.
If he has every single day planned out to avoid you….yah…sounds like he would rather spend his days licking sand paper then date you.
Move on. You’ve been used.