So I just started university, I’m 18 years old, and I’ve been here for about 3 weeks. I met this guy Thursday before last at Shakespeare society (don’t laugh, it’s cool!) and a few of us went to the pub afterwards. He’s 21, second year, cool, good-looking. Then on Monday he invited me to some comedy with a couple of his friends, the night went on, he held my hand, started stroking it, I rested my head against his, and he kissed me.
We’ve been out almost every night this last week, to pubs and clubs and things, we’re always together when we’re there, holding hands and kissing and stuff. And he texts me pretty much every day, just to see how I am.
But we’re always with other people as well, we haven’t been on a real date, and we always drink a lot when we’re together. And it’s only been like a week. Is this a real relationship?
I’ve never been together with anyone I haven’t known for years. I’ve only had one real boyfriend and that was only for a few months when I was 16. He’s much more experienced than me, I’m still a virgin and he’s not.
So what are we? Boyfriend and girlfriend? Friends with benefits? Dating? Fooling around?
What makes it into a real relationship? Time? Sex? Being alone?
I’m going over to his place for supper tonight. I have no idea if it’s just food, or if we’ll have sex or what.
Should I even worry about it? Just go with it? That’s kind of what I’m doing atm, but I just want to feel more secure.
Thanks for your help.
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Okay Congrats
Yes Week 1 is a little early
but you two are very close to dating
I think he could possibly want sex so you need to be ready
Sex does not make a relashonship either
You should not worry at all unless you don’t want sex
Hope I could help
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Go with the flow, Do what you feel comfy with :]
Also it seems to me you guys are like in love
Btw he seems nice and perfect for you 😀
I think its early days yet. I wouldn’t say you’re in a relationship but its only been a week, give him a chance to ask you out properly. I’m certain he will.
Ask him where you guys are at.
well remember its your first year and dudes who are experienced like messing with”newbies” becuase they think its easy. Just take your tyme with him. dont rush into anything because you will probably be seeing him for another 2 years. Ask him how he feels about you, talk to him alittle more. Dont fall into the kissing/holdng hands trap…Just brace yourself show him that your interseted but dont give too much of yourself