This goes along with my last question i posted. My mom refuses to listen when i ask to go see him im going to be 18 in 8 months idk y shes giveing me a hard time plz help
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you obviously don’t know much about parents and how they raise children! Any sensible parent would not let their child spend the night at their boyfriends house, why? You’ll get pregnant and theyll have to take care of the child. Save it till you’re out of the house, or at least 18.
Respect and don’t take your parents for granted, they always know what’s best and they want the best for you. Deal.
Well what I think is that your parents need to know that they can trust you (not to have sex or anything similar to that). You shouldn’t just go on strong and say, “mom, dad, I’m gonna have my boyfriend over and he’s gonna spend the night.” you should start off simple. Here’s an example: “mom, dad, would it be okay if maybe in a couple weeks or so my boyfriend came over? Before you say no, I know you might be thinking this is a bad idea, but I was hoping that mom could check on us every now and then. Plus my boyfriend can sleep downstairs. And dad could check in on my boyfriend every now and then.”
How’s that sound. If it doesnt work, just wait a couple months then try again. This time, enhance your grades in school, get into less trouble, and maybe that time your parents will think of you as more respinsible.
Also you should let your boyfriend get to know your father more. You know how dads are. They’re always cautious and head strong around younger men who may or may not want to have their daughter. You should take your dad and your boyfriend to a fishing trip and try to get them to find things they have in common.
Hope the advice helped. 😉
That is their choice, if they so no, they’ll so no no matter what. I wasn’t allowed to ever have a guy overnight at my house when I lived at home (which was until April this year and I am 28) I started being allowed to sleep over with a boyfriend by 21/22. Every parent is different with rules, respect them, they want to keep you safe because they love you.
age does not count so you can sleep together with your BF. I hope that you would listen to your mom she has a good purpose why she does not allow you. try your best to follow your mom put yourself in the situation of your mom.
tell her youll sleep in the living room one on the floor and one on the couch it worked with my mom
why do you have to stay at his house?
you’re 17.25 years old.
sure, it sounds fun but mommy doesn’t want to be a grandmother right now.
because she’s a good parent and doesn’t want to be a grandmother yet. your not even considered an adult yet.
Run away with him, that’s the only way, that’s what I did and I now I live happily with him
This is why:
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