I’ve been doing no contact with my ex girlfriend for over 4 weeks. The last communication was when I called her twice 4 weeks ago and she never called back. I’m focused on moving on, but feel like I really got the short end of the stick with everything and hate knowing she has an ego over the breakup. I’m trying to move on and forget about her. The only open channel we have to each other right now is our facebook profile pictures, as we aren’t friends on facebook anymore. I’ve gone with the very nice picture of me in a classy suit, which I never usually wear. People say to push the jealousy with some pictures of me out with friends/girls, but that seems immature. Honestly, I would really like to get back together with her, but am trying to think with my mind and not my emotions as much. Should I post a different type of picture that will aid in attracting her more? Any ideas? It sounds lame, but pictures I have posted in the past have seemed to grab ex girlfriend’s attention before. I wish it didn’t come to that, but it has. Any thoughts here?
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John, it’s been a month now since you’ve broken up with this girl. In all honesty, I’d say best to put it in the past & proceed forward with your life. IF for some reason she decides otherwise, you then could decide if you do want her back or not. You’re concentrating on something that’s at a total standstill & not going forward or backward, you’re in the “hold” position of nothing. You just may surprise yourself & find someone even more suitable than you tho’t she was! I’d forget about cking. on her on Face Book. I totally loath that site to begin with as it seems it causes more & more problems for relationships/marriages/break ups, you name it. IF you want to change your picture on it, by all means do it. It sounds as tho you honestly want to, go for it then. But for now, I’d leave her on hold & you go forward & see what’s available. You just may be pleasantly surprised!!!…best to you..:)
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You have a couple of unresolved issues with your former GF. You feel you got the short end of the stick over the breakup and you would like for her to return. The lady has obviously said no. There are two categories for women who say NO. The ones who mean no should be respected, even admired, for meaning no when they say no. The ones who mean maybe when they say no are the ones who are inviting a world of grief upon themselves because they have lost credibility and open themselves up to endless persuasion by unwanted characters. Research has shown that males take it harder than females do when they break up, and that may be the reason they act out and become news stories. Ask yourself if it’s OK to be perceived as a stalker. By putting up more attractive photos of yourself, especially photos which don’t represent the true you, as you have admitted, then you are exercising your made-up persona, not the real you. At her age there is a boundless sea of admirers, a fact you have to live with. If she truly wants you back, she will send out feelers. Until then leave her alone. Swallow your pride and hurt feelings and move on; You sound intelligent, so make yourself more attractive for the next girl. Don’t become obsessed with a hopeless cause.
Break ups are so hard to go through. It can take a long time to get over someone. Since you called her twice and she never responded, it appears she has moved on. I suggest you try to move on too.
The first thing you should do is to stop looking at her facebook account. You don’t want her ego to get bigger with these antics you want to try to gain her attention. The best way to get her attention is to continue with your life. Maybe she’ll come around but then again, maybe not.
No you’re actually not over reacting! it relatively is totally widely used. Your being protective of what’s rightfully yours. yet sounds like she nevertheless has a overwhelm on him. facebook is a manner of looking out the smallest element of somebody. unwell admit I even have too some situations. it relatively is evil.. yet i might of asked a similar element to delete.. Delete.. Delete. it relatively is a no go zone. Why does her ex could desire to have her on his facebook. purely a guideline make her ex sense fearful of u upload him to facebook. Then he will say ur bf basically tried including me?! and he or she might get the hint
Amazing how un-over over relationships are.