i’m 30yrs old women. resently going to get married.i dont want a child in my early phases of my married life at least not before 3years. bt i dont want my husband know all this… so is there any precoautions….which i can take without telling my husband….????? and he wont be abel to know that i’m taking any precons
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Just tell your husband that you want kids eventually, but that you would like to enjoy life with just the two of you for a while first. Really, how is this even an issue? You’re both adults and if you can’t discuss things like this openly then you have no business being married in the first place.
Talk to your doctor about birth control. There are many options available and no one, including your husband, has any right to your medical information if you don’t want them to know.
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If you feel the need to lie to your husband now then maybe you shouldn’t get married. Especially something as dramatic as children. Children is really the deal breaker of the relationship, you either want them or you don’t.
Explain to him that you want to spend the first couple of years childless…and then you guys can start.
Just keep in mind yu’ll be 33 by the time you start trying and you don’t know yet if you’re going to have difficulties.
I thought I’d get pregnant right away so I went off of my pills extremely early excited to get pregnant and it’s been five months so far and nothing.
Go see your doctor, theres many forms of contraception that he wont know your taking.
some can be implanted under the skin of your arm or theres a device that can be inserted into your cervix, also theres an injection you can get, usually in the arm or your ***, every 3 months. there all around 98 – 99% effective.
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You should have some before 3 years. Do you really want to be an old mum, what if you get to 33 and have trouble having a baby.
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You go to your doctor and ask for contraception. Nowadays you can have an implant or have an injection every 3 months. Discreet and quite efficient.
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Hmm…starting out married life on a lie? There’s a recipe for a long and happy life together!
Why can’t you let him know? I suppose you could just go on the pill and keep it where he can’t see it and take it when he’s not around but are you sure it’s a good idea to lye to your partner? x
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This is a forum for people who are TTC so why would you post this on here? Weird
Your communication skills obviously lack.
Why not tell YOUR HUSBAND, your not ready for kids yet.
While he is asleep, cut off his balls. Make sure there is a monkey in the room with a bloody knife. That part is important, cause your blaming it on the monkey!
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