I am 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months, i was a virgin but he wasnt. Last night i lost my virginity to him. He mentioned that he was doing all of the work but i am unsure what to do!!? what shall i do exactly so that i am doing the work HELP TIPS….
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Well, he can’t be upset because he was doing all the work, if he knows that you were a virgin. That’s how its supposed to be. But, next time, try rocking your hips back and forth. Or, thrusting up to meet him while he is thrusting. Every girl is different, do stuff that feels good for you and it will most likely feel good for him too. So, until you get to know you own body, experiment. There is no quick way to “get good in bed,” it takes practice. Take your time and have fun!
I think that was a pretty dumb thing for him to say honestly. He KNEW you were a virgin. What was he expecting? A porn star? You had no idea what to do, where to go, etc. The first time is usually a bit awkward. Especially if you’re the virgin and he’s not. If it was straight missionary, then it’s a bit hard for the girl to move around. Make sure you keep up some rhythm. Don’t just lay there like a dead fish. Like grind with him down there, kiss him, his neck, grab his back, his legs. When he is thrusting into you, grab his butt and hold him once he’s all the way in and grind in circles.. It’ll hit your clit too so it will feel amazing. There’s only so much you can do being pinned down, but if he wants YOU to do the work then that means you’re going up on top and for a newbie in the sex department that may be a bit awkward for you. Just experiment I guess. Have him show you what he likes. He can’t just make an insensitive comment like that without telling you what you could do to improve.
I’d say look up some stuff on the internest (positions?). Cosmopolitan magazing has some good sex tips. I say talk to your bf and ask him what he would like you to do, he should help you since he knows this was your first time.
i don’t think of there is something incorrect with you sweetie. this is common to crave intercourse when you start up having it. I recommend it somewhat is satisfying so of direction you’re gonna choose for further and extra of it. merely be cautious to not permit your dating advance into thoroughly actual by way of fact the emotional connection between you and your lady is whats maximum crucial && intercourse could merely be one area of the dating yet not at each and all of the main crucial area.
well, i think 2 months is a bit early, i mean i hope you guys really know how serious sex is and how it will affect your relationship. As for his comment, it was your first time, obviously you wouldn’t know what to do, i think he needs to be a little more understanding of that…but basically he wants you on top.
hope this helped,
-sydney-
Do you know how to dance??? if you do then this will be a piece of cake…if you dont just relax and enjoy love making is somehting that comes to you naturally….Grind your hips…round and round…up and down….ride him…oral….grab him a lot…specially his butt if he is on top…try scratching him a bit if he is into that….not to hard though lol unless he says too…
it was the first time
why is he complaining about doin all the work
im sure he knows it was your first time
if you feel like your ready to take control
then ride him
that’s what he wants
Ride him i geuss. Maybe he wants oral sex. Or better yet while you guys are having sex grind your hips that always help.
show your b/f some pornographic websites for selection
he sounds like an **** to say that so dump him