I love my wife very much. She is everything to me.
As of the past 4 months, i have noticed that my anxiety is destroying our sex life. My wife is 21 and has a higher sex drive that me (i’m 29). I let even the slightest distraction or mental worry prohibit me from being sexual.
I lose my erection and can’t get it back if something like this happens:
*If the dog is in sight.
*If i have trouble getting her bra off.
*If i have to get up to adjust the lighting in the room.
*If i let everyday stresses get caught in my mind.
*If im hungry.
*If i drank coffee.
How can i be normal and have sex with my wife?
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Just try to focus in the moment on her 10o%. and if you still continue to have problems with this, talk to your doctor. there are some medications they can prescribe you to help you with your sexual performance. its nothing to be ashamed of. don’t stress.
Ungh. The same thing happens to me…but the thing that sucks is that even the meds that they put you on for anxiety can diminish your sex drive as well. You just can’t win. I would definitely still see a doctor though.
If you talk with your wife about it, she will probably be really understanding. You have to assure her that it doesn’t have anything to do with her and that your sole objective is to make her holler. You might even want to shop for a ‘special toy’ …if you know what I mean so that the two of you can still have a good time even when your meds have you feeling down…so to speak.
If you have such nasty drawbacks it would be best for you to visit a doctor and take medical advice. Being 29 yrs old if you cant satisfy your wife today , future would always be dark for you. Sex is one of the important ingredient of settled , peaceful and successful married live.