My friend keeps commenting on my weight?

So my friend is slim, without much curve. She mocks me for my shape even though I prefer it. I am 40-26-40, so big bum, hips and chest with a small waist. I don’t always feel confident but I receive positive attention from most guys I meet, so I don’t know why she wants to put me down. I know she hates having a small bust and is insecure so maybe that is why. Either way, she’ll call me fat then laugh like oh I was joking. Or I’ll get a snack on my travels and she judges me, like you sure you wanna buy that? Or telling my other friends, oh I’d get that for you, but her **** is in the way. Honestly, I have friends bigger than me and couldn’t imagine commenting on their weight like this… Is this her own issue? I eat healthy and I exercise, this is my shape I can’t be skinny it isn’t my body’s natural shape. When we go out, I get more attention, but she still feels superior because she is slim… Shall I just ignore her?

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In a healthy friendship it’s important to be open about how you feel. You’re telling this to the yahoo community because her comment(s) bother you for some reason. No one wants to be called fat or commented on their weight. No one can tell you what to say to your friend. You really have to do what you feel is right. Don’t feel nervous to speak up. Only you know how you feel. If what she says makes you feel a certain way do something about it. If you don’t speak up nothing will change. Be respectful and assertive.

She says it to feel better about herself, or she honestly thinks she’s just being funny. You want friends like that? Just tell her you don’t want get making comments about your weigh anymore.

You need to sit down over a coffee and tell her gently that you would appreciate her not commenting on your weight again.

She could be jealous or she could be concerned about your health. Some people have differing views over what is ‘overweight’ and possibly unhealthy.

She is likely unaware of how rude she is being so gently pointing it out will stop the comments but keep your friendship solid.

She doesn’t sound like much of a friend at all. Dump her, the stick-thin *****.