It’s like I’m all alone in my house. My mom is rarely home like not at all. She’s gone for weeks at times (work). She travels. My dad is only home on Sunday, but is there on nights, I kinda avoid him cuz I don’t like him very much. My brother hates me! Like he’s younger than me and still seems like he has more power than me, like wth? Always getting me into trouble! And last but not least, the grinch on my couch. My grandma has to live with us cuz she’s not capable of living on her own. But she can’t stand my guts! Always puts me down! She calls me a “Sick little girl” “Pathetic” and what not. I try not to take it to heart cuz she’s old and miserable but it just gets to me. And I’m 15! She tells me to act my age and all that like I should be a twenty year old women! When I don’t wanna be! I wanna be myself and have fun with what I do! I’d love to go see a therapist but who would take me? I don’t have any friends to call! Well I have friends, it’s just I dont like telling people my personal info unless Its anonymous. I tried telling my dad about my grandma INFROT OF HER. Saying what she does and she denys it! After that my dad says how it’s not even that bad, and he asked me I’f I loved her… This was a hard question cuz it was right infront of her and I didn’t wanna hurt her feelings. So I said… “50-50, like somedays she’s a great grandma(LIE) and others shes very miserable to me” he started saying how dissapointed he was in me and what not and kept telling me to be quiet and wouldn’t let me talk after that. When I finally started walking away I said “You shouldn’t try to make an adult conversation while your buzzed, (he was) maybe even drunk I smelt in on his breathe and his eyes were very very red. He came in my room saying “who do you think you are” bla blah then told me I wad too smart for my own good. And it made me cry when he left..the fact that I feel so alone in this house and no matter what I do, nothing helps. Just please leve comments of help
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Take some deep breaths, relax, refocus. The general elderly population still goes by with what they grew up with. Like their old fashioned customs and whatnot, you have to understand that their way of thinking is proper and whats right to them in their mind. Respect what they say you can actually learn a thing or two from them and use it later in life. As I have learned. Be yourself always. take every ones opinions and just leave them as their opinions. Open your eyes to your future and what lies ahead of you. sure things at home may be tough but a majority of homes can be brutal. learn to go with the flow and do not let it get to you and cause frustrations inside you. its a hard thing to do but i learned to ignore it and if things got really bad i resorted to a friend who i trusted and still trust to this day. when i was your age i had no one i felt comfortable venting to. but now i do it makes things alot easier to hear someone elses perspective. maybe try talking to a cousin or aunt or uncle to help you out. hope things get easier for you.
god that must be horrible you should try and talk to your mum and see if she can get a job close to home or try and spend more time with you. and your grandma is slack i will say no one deserves to be spoken to in that way. if your dad thinks your horrible or you don’t feel like your fitting in at home maybe move out.
Stop being such a selfish spoiled brat and learn to get along with your own family.