I have recently had a big fall out with a couple of my friends. and even thought at first it didn’t bother me a great deal now they are starting to get other (older then us) people involved calling me up and saying nasty things to me. they are also putting on status’s etc on FB and calling me things such as a sket and a stupid *****. which you can imagine is making me extremely unhappy!! i have no idea what to do as they are refusing to make up with me and i feel like i have no one to turn to if things get really bad!!! please please help someone as its getting to the point where i cant even face going to school.
please help soon 🙁
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Answerer 1
hope to be friends in the future n try to make new friends
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Answerer 2
If you’ve done something really bad to hurt them then what they are doing to you is a way of getting you back and making you feel the same way, even if they don’t know it.
When they see you really upset and trying hard for their forgiveness it makes them feel powerful and in control, which makes them feel good becuase they probably had no control over what ever happened. The more you try and make up with them the more they feel they are dominant in the situation and the more they will be reminded of what has happened.
If there is also more than one of them they’ll be urging each other on, if one thinks that maybe they want to forgive you they other will stop that happening even if she feels the same way too.
Talk to them one on one but not in a threatening way and most of all give it time. They less they think about whatever has happened the easier it will be to forgive you. Hope this helps?
p.s. hope you feel better soon, forget about them for now and think are they even worth it if they’re being so pathetic to do what they are doing?
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Answerer 3
hmm try to back off a little and ignore wat they say. people are really annoying.
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Answerer 4
That’s absolutely horrible but u’d be surprised at how much it happens! I’m sure ur sick and tired of hearing this but….parents or any responsible adults are the best resort. They may not be able to stop it straight away but it sounds like u could do with any type of support atm. The people bullying you will get over it sooner or later and well it’ll just be easier to move on (i know its supa hard right now). Just tell someone….anyone who cares about you and i’m sure it’ll take a whole heap of pressure off your shoulders.
Good luck =) xoxo
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Answerer 5
I’d give it some space. If you really want to be friends with these people tell them you love them, are truly sorry, and hope to be friends in the future. Then give yourself some space away from them and make new friends.
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Answerer 6
You can delete them from your Face-book account so you do not see what they are saying. If it gets really bad, you can report them to the Face-book people and let them handle it.
People challenge you to see what you are made of. This has happened to me so much that I can write a book. Drop them like a hot potato. Make new friends and one’s that respect you. Get into the habit of telling your friends when they hurt your feelings. Keep making a lot of friends. Don’t feel bad, by saying Hi to someones could land you a good friend. You may have to drop some of the one’s who mistreat you.
If it get worst, tell your parents if you are under 18. They can do something so it does not get out of hand.
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Answerer 7
Well I’d just suggest you try your best to avoid them because its obvious they have no respect for you and will try anything to get at you. If you do run into them just ignore them and move on. When people can tell something doesn’t get to you, after a while they will tend to just stop all together. You’ll get new friends, just don’t let these ones get to you.
Talk to your family about it if you truly feel alone. I know that’s not everyone’s first reaction but your family should always have your back and can help you get through it.
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Answerer 8
i think you should keep ur kul by simply igmoring them. dont ever beg them to make up with u. if i was you i’d try and find some inner confidence within urself.. be confident for who u r, dont fear anyone! they are the ones degrading themselves by pranking u.. just concentrate on your studies.. and this may help, pray to god and ask him to bring people ur way who u can trust and who trust u… It works!, trust me…. just be patient, dont stress about a bunch of people who treatt u like crap and dont care about you… put yourself first and dont loose your self respect 🙂
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