Ok, firstly please no religious-fanatics or homophobes. Yes, I’m in a lesbian relationship, but that fact is completely beside the point. The thing is, this is the 3rd time I’ve been dating this person, the first time we broke up because her mother disapproved, the second time because I was “too depressed” for her. During those times she would usually have an excuse not to meet up with me, so I was fine with it being ended. Then, two weeks ago, after a year break, she suggested getting back together. I knew she’d spent lots of time in my area in the last few months so figured things might be better this time. We were gonna get together tomorrow, but a few hours ago I got a message from her sister saying that she can’t make it coz she’s looking after a sick sibling.
Now, I’m fairly sus because its just too coincidental. What’s the chances that she can meet up with all her other friends in this area every week but the one time in over a year that it’s me, she can’t make it? Highly unlikely. So I figure she must be avoiding me…but it was her idea for us to get back together, so what the hell??? I’m so confused and I don’t know what to do. Please help.
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Don’t get back together. She is playing games with you. She probably wants to get back with you in between other relationships. Start dating other people.
So are you guys like living far apart? maybe she just needs her space. or maybe it is coincedental. but what you really should do is talk to her about it. tell her how you feel and if she really cares you guys will work it out. My girl can be kind of confusing sometimes too…we are going through a rocky point right now. all i can do is try and be the best girlfriend i can be and hope we can resolve our differences. well. in the end everything will work out =] good luck with your girl. =]
ash
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Why would she just call you herself??? I think that is soo lame. And dose she not have parents to take care of sick siblings. And how sick dose one have to be to need CONSTANT attention. Ya she is being childish. Sound like something else came up, and she didn’t have the balls to blow you off to your face so she had her sister do it….. which is really awkward lol. move on dear.
the day after tomorrow text her to see how her sibling is doing..you know coming back where you left off with her. once that conversation ends, just leave her alone.if she messages you back then talk to her, but dont seem over eager. she may just be pulling your strings for fun….some people like doin that. just be chill and relax, youve already dated her before so you know the routine with her, just leave her be.
Just move on. Your girl is completely unreliable and definitely not trustworthy.
Yer give up
maybe shes straight..
yea call it quits
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Ditch her.