right, so me and my now ex gf, well, we had sex, she had an implant so as far as we both thought, she couldn’t get pregnant, btu oh wait, two days ago (after we broke up) i found out that she is pregnant. i do not want to keep it, i think she needs to get the A. we’re both only 18 for christs sake, but she wants to keep it, me personally, i am no where near being a dad yet. is there anything legally i can do to stop her from having this kid?
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The way to stop her from getting pregnant would have been to not have had sex with her. Since it’s too late for that, no, you can’t force her to have an abortion, and yes, it’s possible you will be on the hook for child support for your contribution to this situation. Many people throughout history have become parents at 18 and you will survive. On the other hand, if you are clear that you are not in any position to provide support, and you will probably go out of state when you’re done with school and not be in the child’s life, it might start her thinking about adoption. Try to interest her in an open adoption over Adoptimist.com — where she can be part of the baby’s life, but not have to give up her goals in order to parent at this stage of her life.
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Think about it this way…
Could I make you have your tonsils removed, if there was no medical necessity for the operation?
Of course I couldn’t. It’s an unnecessary medical procedure which, like any surgery, carries the risk that it could go wrong and serious consequences could result.
What makes you think you can force someone else go through surgery which is not medically necessary, just because you can’t face the consequences of your actions?
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Tough luck you can’t stop her being a mother. If you didn’t want to a dad you shouldn’t have had sex. She will be able to get child support from you once the baby is born even if it means going through CSA.
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Can you legally force her to kill her unborn child? No, thankfully, the law does not require a mother to do that, regardless of the father’s wishes. And you may feel differently once the baby is born and you hold him or her in your arms.
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Not on your back here but you reallllllly should have thought this through. Did you not learn anything from those crucial pshe lessons that no one really gave a toss about
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You can’t do anything. She’s already pregnant, and she’s decided on having that child. It’s your fault for having unprotected sex.Plus, you shouldn’t care. She’s the one who will take care of the baby, so what do you care?
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No you can’t it’s her choice she’s the one that has to carry the baby for 40 weeks I’m sorry hunny…
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There is nothing you can do. That’s your child! For Christ sake!
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Praise the Lord, there is nothing you can legally do.
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Nothing you can do, nothing in the law. You should have abstained. I bet you will next time.
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