Was I molested?help??

Ok so when i was about five years old there was this girl in my school that used to touch me and also bully me. She just randomly squeezed my vagina at times, and i didnt tell her anything because i didnt know what was going on and i was scared. She also bullied me by taking off the elastics i used to tie my hair up with. Ever since that day, i have not worn my hair up to school,not ever. And by telling me chucky was hiding in the bathroom and other things. If it were not for me accidentally telling my sister what was appending she would have kept doing it. My sister then told my mom and she told the teacher. From then on she never did it again.

IN the years after that i became super shy, although i was kind of already shy, to the point where i wouldn’t even answer my peers when they talked to me. It became extremely difficult to make friends because i was so scared to talk. Now that i am in highschool, i am still shy but feel comfortable talking to people and such.( im 16 btw)

Well now what im asking, was my extreme shyness due to what that girl did. Was i really molested? I have never really thought Of that until now. I have pretty much blocked it out ever since it ended, so i dont really remeber all the times she touched me but i know it happened.

Any input would be appreciated…thanks!

5

✅ Answers

  • Dear CB, you are not alone in your feelings and if after what i tell you sheds no light…please talk to a professional. The girl who did this was obviously having some issues at home. perhaps she,was displacing her confusion and anger and you just,happened to be her target. Who knows, but know that children at that age are naturally curious seexually and what ur describing doesnt sound like molestation to me. This girl may have been mimicing abuse. that is,unfortunate. However, this should not effect ur life in such a,way that makes u feel different or socially awkward. You are 16 and ur at a turningpoint yourself. youre just getting to know urself. Everything now is supposed to be awkward. Take an acting class and get your hands on a psychology 101 text book. Or a human sexuality 101 college text. Theres great explanations. Im glad ur mom and sister know…because i think had u held this in…THAT may have negatively affected ur social development. You are ok from what i read. I hope the other little girl got help. I wish u the best, u are a perfectly normal…now go enjoy your youth…dont,waste it being shy!!!! xoxo

    See also  HOW CAN I HELP MY SISTER...SHE'S ADDICTED?
  • I would say that you were bullied more than anything. I really wonder about the other girl. For her to go around grabbing other girls vagina’s shows some serious issues. Children who do those kinds of things are usually molested themselves and act out revenge on some unsuspecting person. Unfortunately, in this case it was you. See a therapist to deal with your shyness. It may or may not be related to this incident. Best of luck to in the future.

    Grandpa Mike

  • i too had had this experience but yours is ur sweet vagina. But mine was my penis. Later u don’t have any physical disability right ?try contol ur mind or go for a social phobiac treartment

    Source(s): My Life :-*

  • That girl is probably a les today

  • How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.Sign in
  • sometimes we don’t want to remember something so much that our brain makes us forget it, what that girl did was completely wrong. go see a therapist or something, honestly it helps 🙂

  • Other Related Questions

    Sadness is a primitive behavior?

    Answers Favorite AnswerThere's a school of thought that all emotions are is our mind reinterpreting physiologic changes in our body. To wit, what you said about hormones is on point.In a sense all emotions are primative. With the development of language we have come up with interesting ways of reclassifying our feelings, but there are some primary ones. Fear and anger are the deepest, rooting from our so called "lizard brain" (I believe it's the thalamus). Memory is primitive too, because it was the catalyst for evolution.So yeah, I'd say sadness is probably related to fear (a support giver in the community is gone) as well as nostalgia (all the positive memories you had of the person). Sounds pretty primitive to me :)Source(s): Some study of psychology and neurology in undergrad and grad schoolI don't think it's primitive. I think emotions are based on your perspective on life and how much you attach yourself to a given situation. When someone dies, one is not sad so much for the death but rather because that particular person meant a lot to them and now they're gone.In Buddhism, in general, they teach not to attach oneself to materialistic things and to observe Read more

    See also  How do you stop hypomania?
    The difference between absolute and comparative advantage?

    I'm in AP Econ and i'm having a little trouble understanding how someone who has absolute advantage doesn't automatically have comparative advantage. I've looked for an example i could understand a couple of times, i'm hoping something here will be more clear.Consider your favorite pro athlete, call him/her X. X is certainly at his/her sport S than you are, but is also almost certainly better doing other things, such as mowing a lawn, than you are. Sp X has absolute advantage over you in both activities.Now, should X spend his/her time away from practice mowing his/her lawn or should s/he hire you to do it? If X had infinite time, X could and would do it all. But X only has a limited number of hours per day so can't do it all.Because X's advantage at sport S is so much better than X's advantage at mowing a lawn, it makes sense for X to pay you to do the mowing and spend the time practicing.So you have a comparative advantage over X in mowing precisely because your nowhere near as good as X in sport S.http://internationalecon.com/Trade/Tch/T-.phpNote that Chinese workers are much less efficient than American workers in manufacturing. But Read more

    hello, i have some ?s about friendships…?

    i'm a years old guy and im straight. A couple days ago, a girl that i like asked me: "why do u always hang out with girls? do u have any guy friends?" uh-oh.. my answer was "yes, but i hate to hang out w/them cuz their annoying"...honestly i dont have any guy friends and i'm pretty embarrassed when i get to be the only guy on the lunch table, on the group, teams..ect....my ? is, how to make guy friends? i know this is awkward my dear readers, but I REALLY NEED ur help.!!!how to make guy friends????and how do u star a convesation with them??? ✅ Answers? Favorite AnswerFirst off, you need to realize that you don't need guy friends. Just because everyone else has them, doesn't mean you have to have them, as well. There are plenty of straight people who hang out with members of the opposite sex.However, if you're really so intent on hanging out with them...-Start doing or learning about (generally) masculine things. Video games, for example.-You could start playing sports. Find something you like, there's a wide variety of sports, something for everyone.-Start talking to other guys. You can't make friends if you Read more

    See also  Anger explosion situations! Am I suppose to be angry at these?
    what does it mean when a demon is in ur dream?

    So I had this dream last night and it kinda scared me. I was laying in bed and sleeping and then all the sudden my cat named oreo who died came in and laid down but she had red eyes and was bleeding from the stomach. I immediately got up from my bed and onto the floor saying u aren't my cat and it kept acting like my cat and stuff. but at some point it realized I wasn't falling for it and got mad so I kicked my cat away and then it acted like I hurt my cat so I would check if its okay and this went on for a couple minutes and then it said something to me but I don't remember. then it tried to be my dog that I sleep with and there was two dogs but somehow I managed to find the real one. and then I was back on the floor and by a book and I slammed my hand on it and started saying "I banish u! I banish u!" and then it start to say ur god is weak and stuff like that and finally it showed up in a Read more

    Leave a Comment