What to do with this girl, that i really love so much,plz help.?

Ok here is the scenario, i met this lady at church & i like her so much. we started getting along very well & even proposed to her. She accepted me but then we were just talking on phone because she claimed to be too busy for me, i guess it was just one way of trying to avoid me. We arranged to meet up some where & everything was just fine, A day before that i received a text form her saying that her boyfriend is not comfortable with me calling her all the time,meanwhile she never mentioned of him from the beginning, I still Love this lady.

By the way this lady has two friends who seems to be so influential in her life & one of them does not seem to like me when i don’t even know her that much. Pls help me i stopped calling her becoz i was hate, The more i stay without calling her,the more love l feel for her.

By the way it is my friend who is in this situation.

Update:

Half a year

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  • umm how long did you know her before proposing?

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