Right now me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year now. He is in jail right now and I am staying 1% loyal to him even in mind. I have never had a thought come into my head about another man ever. He is the only one I think about, seriously, and now I got a call from him today and he told me that he has had a dream about making love to another girl while I watched. It breaks my heart that he would think about another girl because I am so in love with him. What is he thinking and how does he feel?
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It happens. I’ve never had dreams like that either, but my boyfriend has had two dreams during which he cheated on me. But I have no worries about him cheating on me. I trust him 1%!
I do have to admit, it does make me feel a little bad, but there’s nothing I can do about it. Also, the fact that he told me about them shows to me that he’s not considering it or anything. He actually felt really bad about it.
Basically, when it comes right down to it, a person cannot control their dreaming while asleep. The mind just does weird, strange things.
I honestly wouldn’t worry about a mere dream. Hell, you know he’s not seeing any women in jail. And I have had dreams in which I’ve done things that I would never do or want to do!
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Dreams generally don’t mean anything specific. But it’s important that he told you about it. That shows that he trusts you and that he’s not secretly hoping to cheat.
One point though, if you’re watching him I would assume you’ve given him permission, and then it’s not cheating.
I would break up with you over something like that, Your thought are your and yours alone and everyone has crazy thoughts sometimes that they just shouldn’t talk about. sometimes they do, just excuse it, I think about killing people all the time, but I never do it. Do you really want to be the thought police?
good lord, drama queen, IT WAS A DREAM. calm down. do you control what you dream about? most people don’t. him dreaming about another girl has nothing to do with his feelings about you. a good, strong, healthy relationship is hard enough to maintain without you freaking out over a silly dream.
on the downlow, he’s a man in jail. the last thing he is thinking about is settling doun with you for the rest of his life. he is was, and probably going to be with other women. sorry
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He’s probably thinking about the unfortunate incident earlier that day in which the soap was dropped.
hes probably tired of the same old same old.
mix stuff up and get more outgoin!
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ur not thinking wen ur dreaming thats how i think of it random **** just happens
dreams are just dreams…but sometimes they do make you wonder…sometimes your dreams could be telling you something .