At the beggining of the relationship you were totally in love with her,
You were always chasing her and took time to be in a relationship with her but you did.
And both of you were happy together for the first 1.5 years.
For the last couple months you started to take each other for granted
and you felt you were not admired or relaied on anymore.
She didn’t respect you and your personal space as much as you wanted.
She even flirted with some gay guys in front of you a few times when she was drunk.
She started to wear like a man with no makeup in front of you.
Of course you still shared lots of good times together too but
You had arguments about the same old stuffs that you both didnt really try to fix
from time to time and one day you suddenly realized yourself unconfortable with her
and you are so much happier when you are with your friends.
and she is difinitely not the person to be with in the future.
The next day you called your girl home at night and told her
“I don’t love you anymore. I don’t trust you. It’s over. There’s no other option ”
and you also told her not to contact you ever again as you would never change your mind.
Although you eventually offered her an arm pillow and hugs after being begged and forced,
you felt terribly sorry for that next morning, and you just treated her very cold.
In this situation,
1.would you still feel a little bit of pain sometimes if the girl disappeared
and never contacted you for a coulpe weeks or months? Even if its your birthday today!
2.what if you bump into her a few months after the breakup and
she become 5times more beautiful than the time you met her for the first place,
and if she sounds totally different from the way she used to be when you dumped her
(ex: she sounds much healthier, maturer, smarter, more independent, responsible, respectful,
and obviously she kicked all her bad habits like snacking, drinking, etc.),
then is there any possiblity you might be interested in her again?
3.And then If she would ask you to catch up for a cup of coffee as old good friends then would you accept it then?
(She sounds friendly and doesn’t look like she got feeling on you.*Even though she still do love you deeply inside.*)
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Love never dies, if u truly loved her once u still do now
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