would you take back someone who cheated on you?

u should let him go….that’s what i did…i’ve tried to take him back but i just couldn’t handle it…i lived in a nightmare for two years and i got over him in 2 days =P a cheater once is forever a cheater!! move on to have someone who would respect you more…

You should move on. As someone in here said, a person who cheats once is forever a cheater. Some person in here said that maybe he didn’t love you so much back then but loves you now. Does that mean that when your relationship may take a dip and be going through trouble (that’s normal), he will cheat on you just because it did? That’s no excuse. When you’re in a relationship, no matter how much you love the other person (even if the love is still young), you should control yourself and never cheat.

I understand that you should sometimes forgive people for mistakes, but that is unforgivable.

Your relationship will never be the same again. That trust is going to take a long time to rebuild, and even then it can’t be completely rebuilt. You will constantly be suspicious of his actions. Why is he late? Why this, why that? Where did he go? You’ll be paranoid. You’ll just get hurt whatever he does, even if he didn’t do anything wrong.

No one can really answer that for you my dear, people can only give you there outlook on the situation.

My friend she cheated on every bf she had. Her current bf she has been going out with him for a year and she f*cked his best mate a while back. But he loved her enough to forgive and forget.

Some people cant get passed the fact that the person they love cheated on them which is fair enough. What exactly did your bf do to cheat? If he kissed another girl thats not too bad its worse when teh guy has feelings for the chick. BUT seeing as your bf yold you straight away after he must really love you and not want to loose you. I hope you told him is wasnt ok. I persoanlly think you made the right choice and as long as your happy now in your relationship it doesnt matter. Whats in teh past can stay in the past.

He confessed his betrayal and that’s why you took him back, I guess?

I believe you also intended to forgive him just that to forget what had happened is not easy. It is normal that you will want to cry about the betrayal as you need time to grieve and heal.He also needs time to prove that he can earn back your trust.

Only you can decide if this man is worth to keep. A mistake done can never be undone.

Forgiveness is the only way to go.If you really love him, you will want to put the past aside and allow the relationship to start afresh.It really all depends how much this relationship means to you.

If I truly loved someone then I wouldn’t give up. It’s going to take a long time to rebuild that trust, and if you’re both willing to work for it and see that it’s really important to you, then I would stick with it. It’s going to be really difficult and heart breaking at times (I’m sure you already know), but if you truly love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, then it will be worth it. If you don’t want to spend the rest of your life with him then I don’t think it’s worth. You’ll just have to prioritize things and see where you both stand.

Cheating is a really confusing and hard…it is completely situational (I think), so do what you feel is right in your heart. If it hurts, but feels like it’s worth it, then stick with it. If it simply hurts, and you don’t think you’ll ever be able to forgive him and he keeps hurting you, then I’m not sure it is worth it.

The general rule is, `once a cheater, always a cheater’. If my girlfriend ever cheated on me, it would be over. period. end of sentence. But, that’s just me. Everyone’s situation is different. Personally, I’d rather be alone than with someone who I couldn’t trust.

Until you find the way that he can show beyond a doubt that he’s not cheating again (there is a way, but would require a massive commitment on his part), you can’t ever really trust him again.

Excuse me, but you have seen your guy CRY for you. Please believe me in saying that it’s time to follow your heart in whatever direction it takes you. Do you really love this guy? It sounds like you’re looking for an excuse to high-tail it outta there. If so, accept this and leave. If not, decide in your soul to forget, and move on.

A good test is imagining how you would feel on your wedding day, and if that’s terrified and dreading then walk out the door.

if he never does it again and he is really sorry then yeah i would take him back. But some relationships arent strong enough to handle such a blow like that. It seems like its broken down. Ask yourself if you trust him enough to work harder at the relationship. You dont seem like your in the right state of mind for a committed relationship as you arent over it. Listen to what other people have to say and then make a decision.

best of luck and truly sorry xx

hard to say. i had the similar situation of my own years ago. i took him back but the same things kept happening all over again. he kept on cheating me and finally when I caught him i broke up with him. it is the matter of trust beyond anything. if the trust is broken suspicions are inserted in your mind constantly. decide yourself and have a good luck.

It depends if you really and truly love him. If you love him you will try to forget the hurt he has caused you. Maybe he was not so much in love with you at the beginning but now is. Leave the past where it should be…in the past …and keep the love that you feel.