Should I ignore him (10 points!)?

So me and this guy have been texting for days. I’m not sure if he likes me but we do text each other, sometimes he texts first, sometimes I text first. I like him, I do drop some hints when we text like I say, “If you are bored, you know you can always text me.” Etc. do you think ignoring him for like a few days can give more thrill for both of us and so I will know if he likes me?

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  • No, don’t play games like ignoring him. That isn’t going to make him like you more. It’s OK to play coy and make him chase you a bit, but not like that.

    If he is texting back and forth with you and initiating some of the conversations, then it sounds like he may already like you. You can play it up a bit by flirting and dropping some more hints, but don’t play games….

  • Don’t try to be manipulative. Do you want a man, or a trained lap dog? Playing games is terrible. Also, your hints could use a lot of work. A real hint would be something like, “I really want to see that new movie <insert movie name>” or “Do you eat out ever?” You can even use those back to back in the same conversation. If he doesn’t take the bait and ask you out to a movie or for some dinner then he’s probably not interested.

  • No, I think it is better if you don’t ignore him because it might give him an idea that you don’t like him and you find him boring. If that happens maybe he’ll stop texting you too. All you have to do is enjoy each other’s company because that is the best day to get to know each other and for you to know if he really likes you. I hope it helped. Have a nice day! 🙂

  • I would. If he’s a strong man, he’ll take the initiative.

    It sounds like you’re making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them. Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.

    May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, – please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).

    My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this guy unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 40, 50, or 60 year marriage – not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!

    Source(s): Straight Talk About Teen Dating – written from a Christian perspective ages preteen-19
    Straight Talk About Dating – written from a Christian perspective ages 20 and up
    Before You Get Naked – written from a secular perspective ages preteen-young adult (new)

  • Yes sometimes stepping back is the best way to see how often someone is thinking about you..lol Funny but true..

    Source(s): 42 years of living…….

  • do not ignore him. repeat, do not ignore him.

    guys are dumb. do not play the mind games on them because they will get confused.

    just keep doing what you are doing. even ask him out. not like a date.. but just hang out just the two of you. and flirt. he’ll get the hint.

  • yes! Wants he notices you aren’t paying any attention to him, he’ll want it back so he’ll text and don’t say you can text me when i’m bored cause you would want him to text you whenever, not when he’s just bored cause then he actually cares about you.

  • No, you could completely throw him off, It would annoy me if a girl did that to me.

    Source(s): Myself

  • meet him in person. dont toil with a persons emotions

  • Talk to him more often ask him out, hang out with him ask him if he does,

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