Im planning on leaving my whole family behind, college and 1 friend that i have. Its either this or commiting suicide i think this is better. Im just wondering would this be wise to do or not. I have money to go to another country and once im in another country i will find a job even if i have to become a prostitute, this will be better than dissapointing my family by not doing well in college.
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Just live in residence at the college, once you have some distance from your family, you will be able to put your life into perspective. College is a learning experience, you don’t actually have to do well, you just have to learn, hopefully something you enjoy and hopefully something that may gain you employment.
I’m actually in favour of prostitution so long as it’s a willing choice by the prostitute and the customers treat the prostitute with respect, but there’s an awful lot of ugliness in the business with pimps and with human trafficking. I think it should be decriminalized so that the profession could be more open and the prostitutes offered protection from those who would take advantage of them.
If you flee to another country your problems will come with you. In fact at 17 you will really make life more difficult for yourself and you will come to regret this later on. Whatever you are not happy with now or worried about in, lets say 5 years time, your thinking will be more mature and life will have moved on, but you will be a lot safer with your family behind you. You are a teenager and you are still growing, physically and psychologically, so don’t do anything stupid now you will come to regret it.
One vote for Morgan! And yes regarding your question, I believe the two options you have listed only showed me how cowardly you are, to run away from obstacles in life. To start with, suicide is out of the question; yes, killing yourself is the easiest way to free yourself from pain, and of course anyone can do that, I don’t see any value in taking away the only priceless life that god have given you…to only be wasted on such trivial matter, I will pity you.
Leaving your entire family behind……after all the trouble they went through to raise you and the love they have given you? Is that how you will repay them? Don’t make me laugh. You are going to betray your “1 friend” just because you don’t want to spend that extra hour to study? is that all he/she is worth to you? Please stop taking things for granted.
About education, you stated that you rather break your connection with your parent, and ruin your body(and even life) to not to “disappoint my family by not doing well in college.” You are NOT learning for your parents, nor you teachers, you are learning FOR Yourself; you are not disappointing anyone, the only person that you are disappointing is yourself.
“Money to go to another country”, if you have enough money and time to take a vacation and detour around another place, why don’t you spend that on something that is of more worth to you, for your own benefit. Go to the bookstore and buy a workbook/tape/CD of your college courses. And buy a gift for your parent and friend to apologize to them how naïve you are while you are at it.
Have you ever seen a made pottery cup?(they are stronger than they looks) Do you know how long it took to become like that? Sorted, stepped up, cut, then burned at 13 degrees. Humans are the same, we are shaped by our experiences and past, and the decisions that we make. So please, don’t ever make such a “one-digit IQ” choices such as these. Grow up.
I hope that you can reconsider your true “options”. But of course, you are free to do whatever you like, just as long as you don’t regret them later. (which in this case is 99.9%, lol, most likely you won’t even have time to do that, don’t make rash decisions, think rationally)
Best of luck to you.
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Listen. I know you are having difficulties, but running away from your problems shows you are giving in to them, letting them control your life. It is your life, and you need to step up and take control. I know you can do this.
In answer to your question, I really don’t think you should leave. Your life will be even more of a mess than it is now. You will find yourself with no money, living on the streets. You will no doubt develop an addiction, and I know your family will be more proud of you if you at least show the courage to try and do well in life, instead of giving up at the first hurdle.
Stay strong. It will get better, I promise. I know you can do it.
Why do this it makes no sense you will feel worse on your own,and all other countries are just as bad.
Talk to your family first.
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