I’m obsessed with perfection?

I spend pretty much my whole day with deciding what to wear and how to look better. I spend SOO much money on clothes, shoes, and makeup. All I do is try to be perfect and have every guy love me and every girl jealous of me. In 7-8th grade I was made fun of for being ugly and chubby I was mentally and soon physically ‘Abused’ by the boys who made fun of me. Now I switched schools and all I want is compliments and to be perfect! I cant stay with one boy I keep switching amd trying to get their attention.. But i dont do anything bad with them.. Im not like that..the one boy I liked broke my heart.. But being like this is killing me! I don’t know what to do and how to just stop.

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I’ve been in the same position as you, but really only you can change yourself. just calm down, know nobody’s perfect, and accept that not everybody’s going to like or approve of you. just be you and be happy. if you keep up what you’re doing, you’re going to feel a lot more broken in a few years, a lot of girls will not like you, and guys will try to do things with you and think you’re easy. change yourself now before it gets too bad, maybe go to your doctor and see if you have symptoms of anxiety too. that was a major part of my problem. remember, you’re the only you so only you determine your value. no one else. (:

That’s the thing with us who are treated crappy in our childhood for our looks, we become OBSESSED with looking flawless. I assume you lost weight by your wording..Try and be proud of what you have accomplished, there are so many people out there who have to fight even harder just to lose weight..Be proud of how much you’ve improved yourself

It is good but do not put on your flesh. Try to be healthy and slim.