I am 22 years old. I am in college. I have a long term boyfriend (over 5 years and we have lived together for 4 of those years). Always been faithful, him as well. I am trying to study for finals tonight.Im at school right now. But I just can’t stop thinking about sex. About doing random guys or guys I know and then professors. This has been going of for a while… I am decently satisfied in the bedroom.. it could be better. I’ve tried making it better but my thirst is never quenched. I don’t know whats going on…
and tips? I don’t know.. I need to study but I just cant get these thoughts out of my head…. driving me mad !
Update:
I have been spicing it up in the bedroom.. If anything that is making it worse. because its better there I want it more. and then I know it could be better so I am still left wanting ! Sex addict, you say… well I have only had 2 partners, including current boyfriend..maybe I just want some diversity? I have no idea. but there definitely is a problem.. but hey I’m relating school work with sex, maybe Im attracted to learning now.
Update 2:
To ADD: I am not having sex with anyone else. like I said, I have only had 2 partners, including my boyfriend. I have physical self control, just not mental which is causing a problem in my work, not my relationship.
Update 3:
and YES he satisfies me, but it could be better. read the details before commenting, please.
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im guessin ur bf has never made u orgasm.. too bad im not ur bf cause i would have u squirting, no im not bein overly confident.. im sure of my abilitys. iv made women squirt many times b4.. ima freak so i lick it all up too
Sounds like you might just be going through it. No matter how much sex you get, the more you want and theirs nothing wrong with having sexual desires. Truth be told you should masturbate more often and relieve some of the sexual tension so that you aren’t just going around having sex with ” random guys, guys i know, and then professors.” Its because of things like that STD’s are going around. If your claiming to do that then your not faithful to him and if he’s doing the same thing then you guys are bringing different sexual partners together which isn’t so healthy. Get checked. Whenever you think about sex, assume that your just single, which you probably are mentally and go masturbate.
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You have the first symptoms of a sex addiction. You should try to spice it up with your partner (maybe do some role playing) and if that doesn’t help you should go see a professional about it.
Source(s): My mother is a psycologist with a degree in sexology
What’s happening is that sex reduces your stress. Right now, with finals and everything, you’re stressing.
See how you feel after finals. If you’re still wanting “crazy monkey sex” with every random guy you know, you may want to reevaluate your relationship with your boyfriend.
If you’re back to just wanting him, then it was just the stress.
well go out take a few drinks and try doing it with your bf if that doesn’t work , do it with someone more experience ,who will be able to satisfy your needs ,someone who is much older than you and your bf .
Tell your BF. He won’t mind and tell him you want it harder and faster and crazier than he’s been giving it! Otherwise, you’ve got the “itch” girl.
just have sex and get it over with it…
you should call me