Isn’t it funny how people say we conceived by ”accident” Understandable if it was a freak accident while u were on the pill or u were using condoms. But other than that u have to have some sort of idea that ur gonna fall pregnant like COME ON. I’ve been trying to conceive now for 16 months and i hear people saying I fell pregnant by accident and i say how is it by accident are you on the pill or using protection and they say NO!! wtf how is that by accident DER!!!
You know when i was younger me and this girl were hanging out and she was like 2 months pregnant and she wanted to ride in the boot and she had the hide to say what i dont want this stupid kid… i never ever spoke to her again
IF U CANT HANDLE THE CONSEQUENCES DONT SPREAD YA LEGS SIMPLE!!!!!!!!!!!
ITS JUST SOO UNFAIR WHEN THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO DESERVE LITTLE MIRACLES AND WE CANT SEEM TO HAVE THEM AND THEY CONCEIVE SO DAMN EASY
SORRY BOUT MY RANT BUT I JUST DONT THINK IT IS FAIR
p.s sorry if i offend anyone 🙂
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Lol i jjust read over that i didnt mean women lol i mean everyone couples one night standers all of them must have some idea that if u dont use protection its a pretty good chance u’ll fall preggas or get a gal preggas
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I agree with you and some people think its no big deal to gget pregnant, or even that its a burden, when there are people like us out there who are dying to get that BFP and bring their own child into this world. People dont think about it until its too late, then they regret not using protection…. shoulda thought about that before!! sorry but i TOTALLY agree with you!!
I’m sorry you feel that way hun. I can completely understand where you’re coming from. And i agree that no child is an “accident” especially if someone is actively having sex. People should only have sex when they are fully aware of the possibility of pregnancy AND would be ready to handle it if it were to happen…and not just by getting an abortion either.
A lot of women take getting pregnant for granted. There are millions of women out there who try very hard every month of the year and have no luck. I sympathize with you and wish you the absolute BEST of luck in conceiving your little miracle! It will come in due time!
i agree totally hon,
ther are some bad ungreatfull people ou therei am ttc no3 for nearly a year now and i have my head melted my fertility is gone away down id say my two kids were conceived so easily when i was young my first was with a condom!but i reasured every minute of my pregnancies and want it so bad again!i be thinking why me why?everywhere i go i see women pregnant and it drives me insane.
my husband has a child also from a previous partner and she is a total psycho(who is guess what pregnant!with a new fella)
and likes rubbin it in she tricked my hubby into makin her pregnant when they were together tellin him she was on the pill so they stopped using condoms-i no it was his fault too though but women in that sense can go to extremes to get what they want!
i be thinking why her why n ot me?she cant look after the child she has properly feeding the child with lies and a diet of junk food 24/7
im a good person and i deserve that!well thats what i think anyway.
i totally 1% agree with you though
I totally agree with u! I am 21 and I am the only one of my friends who hasnt had a kid. I mean i love all of my friends but they just make some stupid decisions,,, I have been with this guy for 2 years and we have never “accidentally” gotten pregnant, because were both careful. I just dont understand how people can say they Accidentally got pregnant when they didnt do anything to stop their bodies from doing what god made them to do… People are dumb.
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I am sorry and i understand you as being a friend that has been ttc for over 5 years now and still nothing. Me on the other hand I was on bc with my first and this one and still wound up pregnant so I do know what you mean when it is so easy to conceive for some and harder than hell for others. I am truly sorry and hope the best to you ~BABY DUST~
I don’t think babies are “accidents”. Just people that don’t know how to use birth control right. I don’t call a baby an accident just because people are ignorant.
I think true “accidental” pregnancies are very very rare, if you do use birth control the right way and it ends up failing for whatever reason.
Good for you. I agree totally,. My husband and I have been trying to conceive since Feb. 28 & nothing yet. There are so many woman out there who have them and then don’t want them.
I agree mostly with all you said, but it bothers me that you place all the blame on the women and not them men in the relationships.
I’m not saying it’s their fault exclusively, but it’s not only the woman’s mistake.
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I AGREE!
I think “accidental pregnancy” is on oxymoron! you know like ” same difference” or “pretty ugly”.
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