the outher nite i was talking on im with my best guy friend he introduced me to his friend jenn on im so we start talking i mentioned that he can be rude and she agreed i also said some personal info about me and him and he did not appreciate that he is mad because out of these two years of friend ship i never mentioned he was rude i called him a *** hole plenty of times but we pick on eachouther but he is really upset i tell him all the time that i care about him and i even told that girl jenn that he means the world to me ,he leaves me a really rude text the outher night before i go to bed saying i dont want to hear that you care u about me i dont want to hear that you love me keep it to yourself my question is do you think i should end this friendship with him he told me i was i backstabber and he will never c me the same way agin because he saw my true colors so i made a mistake and he cant forgive me should i do everything possible to prove iam a good friend or should i call it quits thank you so much for reading this
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You were talking about him behind is back. How can he trust you? And saying your sorry usually doesn’t do much good because the person will just think “sorry you did it or sorry you got caught?”. Talk is cheap.
If you really are sorry, then apologize (which it sounds like you have done) and DO SOMETHING to show it and to back up the apology. Actions speak louder than words. Do something on your own initiative. If that isn’t enough, wait until he asks for something and do that. After that, I would think you have made up for your mistake and there is not much more you can do.
Contrary to what some other people have said, he is not a jerk, as of now, for giving you a hard time. You deserve it. After a little effort is made, the ball is in his court. You are not a bad person, you just made a mistake and seem to feel bad. The bad person isn’t the one who makes mistakes, but the one who doesn’t care, or even enjoys hurting people (and there are a lot of those). Based on what you wrote, that doesn’t sound like you.
you made himlook bad when you said he can be rude. every guy wants tolook good we allget the crapola fromchicks already we donbt need anymore so he wanted you tolift himup in a poisitive light but youdogged him,thats why hes mad.
anyhow tell himyou dogged him and madehiomlook bad and you are sorry and wont do it again. If he wants you to clean it up you will by saying some good things about him tocancellout the bad, tellhimmost people get past junk talk anyhow. ask jenn not to spread anything around and tell him you will talk to jenn if he wants and ask her to make him look good too
Thinks of it the other way around, him telling someone else your an ***. It’s like a kick in the snatch. Would you want to be his friend after that?
He’s a jerk for trying to hurt your feelings as much as possible after seeing your multiple attempts to say sorry. Your a jerk for saying he’s an *** in the first place.
Just leave. If he thinks there is something worth salvaging then he will come to you. You said your piece. No point in saying it again if he’s going to t-bag you.
You need to see him face to face. Before computers and cell phones people really used to talk with each other in person.
Any relationship, be it friend or lover will have its ups and downs. More people have lost good friends through not communicating than for any other Reason. Go talk to him.
like the other answer said, you need to solve it in person, i see he means a lot to you, don’t let such a good friendship slip away that easily, relationships needs work to keep it strong, I almost lost 2 of my best friends and the third hasn’t contacted me in a while, haven’t been in a good mood so i thought it’s better to keep her away temporarily instead of hurting her.
you gotta learn from your mistake, you have to admit them and apologize and promise you won’t say anything bad about him.
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Well personally, if you want to solve anything… it will need to be done in person.
If you try and solve it over txting or phone, it will get worse.
You probaly know where he lives, just go to his house and tell him u need to talk. And say your not leaving until you do.
Before you do that, write down everything you want to say to him. Tell him how you really feel and how you need him as a friend.
Good luck
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okay i dont think youre a bad person, but you mighta went a little overboard(actually alot overboard)i would hate to see you two end your friendship but i kinda have my doubts it can be saved.i kinda have my suspicions that on some level you have some feelings for this guy other than friends, why else would you sabatouge his chances with another girl?search your feelings