hey guys.. so i had a m/c a few months ago and have been ttc since then, it was my 3rd pregnancy 2nd m/c i have a daughter whos 3. ive been tryin coming up 4 months and it just feels like everyone else is pregnant and its never gonna happen again for me. my best friend is pregnant we found out the same day so its very hard knowing shes now 5 months gone and i lost my baby. my periods are driving me crazy the last 2 periods ive had have been a week early! so im getting uupset not knowing whats going on with my body. im so hoping to see that positive result this month but i just feel like im going to come on again… anyone going through it or has who has any encouragement for me. thanx in advance ..
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I completely understand. My husband and I are just now starting cycle number 7! I hoped that it would happen within the first six cycles, but no. I’ve had 7 people in my life announce pregnancies or have babies in that time frame. It’s so frustrating! To make things worse, my last two periods were extremely short and light, and I’m still having cramps (I came off of my last “period” 5 days ago). I just wish it would happen already. We’re trying for number one, and I’m getting discouraged as well.
Here’s to hoping we get our 2010 BFPs! Good luck and lots of baby dust to all who are TTC!
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First off, so sorry for your loss. Back in Sept. I had some weird thing happen to me, I was spotting for 8 days, about 5 weeks preg. I thought, and 3 pos. HPT tests. When I went to take a blood test 2 days later, it was neg. I started bleeding the same day, some doctors said it could have been chemical, some said, it was just false pos. Anyway, my husband and I had been trying for a while, like 9 months- It seems like forever I know. It seemed everyone around me was pregnant and I couldn’t understand why it was so difficult for me. A few months later, and here I am 8 weeks pregnant! It will happen! Especially since you already have awesome blessings. I’m still scared like eveyday, that something will go wrong, but things happen when they happen for a reason. Good Luck!
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I feel the same way, i’ve been trying for 9 months now but nothing yet. I felt upset when my best friend who didn’t want to get pregnant did but i was supportive of her even though it was hard knowing that she’s got a baby inside her when i want another so bad. I’ve got a 12 month son already and would love him to have a little brother or sister. It feels like everything good and what you want is happening around you, i want to get married but can’t because of money issues and i want another baby but it’s happening to other people and not me. Life doesn’t seem fair when you want something but it doesn’t happen. But all i know is all that will happen in time, it always takes time if you want something but if you don’t it happens straight away.
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Yes! I know exactly how you feel! I have a 5 year old son and started birth control after he was born. My husband and I decided to try for another so I stopped the pill in November and I am yet to have a period, 7 weeks now. I’ve taken a pregnancy test and it’s negative, so basically I haven’t even ovulated since I stopped the pill. I understand your frustration at seeing others pregnant, especially close friends. One of my friends just delivered Dec 1st, another is due any day now, and another due in May. However, my friend that is due in may had been trying for over 6 years. No fertility problems, just wasn’t happening for them. It was only when she gave up “trying” that they ended up pregnant, so as hard as I know that is, I’m trying to just let it happen. I know it’s easier said than done. Very best of luck to you, sending baby dust your way!
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Sorry you have to go through this =( There is nothing harder then losing a child – at any age.
I would make a doctors appointment. One MC is normal, but two may be a sign of a problem.
If everything is checked out fine – then relax. It WILL happen. One way or another, you will have a baby if that’s what your heart desires. Whether it be a baby you picked in heaven through adoption, or you become pregnant.
I had two babies by “surprise”, so when we started actually trying for another one, we were shocked it took 6 months to happen. I had never had to try before, and every month my period came I cried and cried. It was horrible, and I started to question myself and my husband. But – I kept praying and I kept my faith in The Lord, and it happened!
Keep trying, never give up – you are worth it, your marriage is worth it, and you baby waiting to join your family is worth it.
Good luck and baby dust!
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same here. All of my friend have babies or have just found out they are going to. I know four people in the past week that found out and it sucks. as for my period mine for dec was late and the had another one in dec that lasted four day(so not normal) then I got some pd symptoms after that goes away like I would norm get. So yea I don’t know I just don’t feel like it will ever happen either. 🙁 I just wish you luck and don’t let it get you down. keep your head up. it will happen. me and my partner have been having unprotected sex for a year now with only like three or four months trying but my friends fail to use a condom or protection once and they get prego and I know some that got pregnant using condoms. so yea it does suck. I know how you feel.
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YES!
I had baby #1 after 2 months of trying. After 12 months of trying my OB wasted my time on stupid Clomid. Finally saw a real doctor who told me I’m basically allergic to sperm. So the last 16 months have been a waste of trying. Now I’m on my second IUI to see if that helps.
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My biggest inkling that I had endo was very painful sex. It hurt so badly especially around ovulation. Did you come off bcp within the past year? It could be that the endo has had time to grow (if indeed you do have it) since you are not on the pill. If that’s not the case, it could be due to something else entirely.
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Back off on the pressure some and you should be just fine. See if you can focus more on what you normally do without dwelling on your condition. Much baby dust to you.
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I feel the same way!
Source(s): TTC FOR ALMOST 3 YEARS(:00