Okay so me and this guy have known each other about 5 years. We care a lot for each other. We’ve both tried to see others because we’ve never really been 1% sure, but we always come back to each other. He told me that he’s realized that I am one of the people in his life who truly cares for him, which is true.
I have unconditional love for him. I don’t push anything on him and he doesn’t for me. It’s almost as if we both don’t want to push the other away. But really, the way he looks at me and compliments—me makes me feel love. The way he holds my hand when we walk together is very sweet.
I personally don’t want to label anything and then have it be ruined. I love being around him and laughing, talking, listening to good music, etc. He is in school and trying to make better of himself. We just can’t seem to get away from one another and feelings progress. Is it possible that we are truly in love??
Update:
katekani, it’s definitely not perfect and all fairy tale, but that’s okay. Nothing is.
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Only you will know if you are in love…. Being in love is unlike any thing else you have ever felt for any one. Its the most wonderful feeling. And to me from the way you describe your relationship… there is a very great chance that this is the start of a life long relationship. The both of you have chosen to do the right thing. Your hearts will let you know for sure when the time is right for further actions to take place. However, I do think that maybe the two of you are in love and are completely scared to admitted it to the other for fear of losing the bond that you have. Keep doing what you are doing it seems to be working the rest will come in the end if it is meant to be. Just let him know how you feel.
Hope this helps.
It happened to me once,too.
Me and this guy…we had known each other for like 5 years…
we were best friends and did everything together!!
We used to see each other every weekend and have a lot of fun..
Neither me nor him realized we were in love with each other.
Not really in love, because we were just some kiddos…
Anyway…
We got into middle school
and we moved to different schools
i hadn’t seen him for over two years
when i met him at a maths contest…
and then figured out
i really liked him
and there was nothing i could do to change things
My advice:
Yes you are in love and if you have feeling for him, you gotta tell before it’s too late
Source(s): my life
You are crazy if you let this opportunity get away. People travel the world to find someone who they feel that way about. What you have described, in my opinion, is definitely love. Why haven’t you taken things further? You definitely won’t ruin anything. At the same time, only you can tell if you are in love. Try saying to yourself “I love him” or “I love (his name)” and if it feels right, then you’re in love.
to me it just sounds like your really good friends, but that you could truly be the ones for each other if you pushed a little more. sometimes pushing isn’t such a bad thing and you need to ask him how he feel exactly about you and don’s settle for vague answers and old lines make him tell you no matter how embarrassing or uncomfortable it is.
i dont think its really love but if time goes on and ther is no change then i believe it is…the thing is a relationship with love is not that perfect…you always see wrong things and learn to accept them in time…the lovey dovey thing is not yet classified as love coz love involve deeper feelings…but in future it might grow to becoming love
its posible, and by your description, i say you too love eachother, but you just dont wanna break the awsome friendship you guys have. just beare with him longer and you’ll both know whens the right time.
it can be love but remember there are different kinds of love.
don’t rush it though just enjoy it.
things will turn out however they are meant to. 🙂
yes, what are you two waiting for.
it’s possible…good luck! â¥