Do guys hate straight-forward girls?? (high school)?

I’m not one of those aggressive girls who is like “I like you” right away. In fact, I have never told a guy that I like him. However, the few guys that have ever liked me seem turned off by my non-dramatic personality. I’m not one of those girls that puts on a show with the flirting, and I’m thinking that they find that boring?? I love to laugh, it’s not like I’m sitting there quietly, I’m certainly into the conversation and listening closely and making jokes. I just don’t find the need to be all mysterious and perhaps that makes me seem like one of the guys??

I just can’t figure it out. Guys are interested in me but then they seem uninterested. I’m super nice, told I’m pretty, smart, athletic, and sensible. I love trying new things, sports, music. The only major flaws I can see are the fact that I’m not super flirty or sexy, I tend to be a bit awkward but people like that I think. I can laugh at myself. Another flaw is that I will text a guy first and I don’t mind asking them to hang out. I just care a lot about the people I like and most of the time I think they get turned off because I let them know that and so there is no chase.

Maybe I’m too complacent as well. I go with the flow and I never get in fights with people because I’ll find a way to compromise or just let it go.Thoughts? What to do?

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You seem like a very nice girl. me personally would not find it weird at all and i would actually like it if a girl just came right out and said that she like me that is not to straight forward at all.

No,infact I like straight forward girls alot as I’m the guy version of you.I hate girls who are very dramatic and plays games.

You sound great I would really like to meet you you are exactly my type of girl.