At the start of last year, in my science class the teacher out us in alphabetical order for seating. He sat me next to this guy, james. I already knew him… we knew each other a little bit because we were the same social group. He was always really shy and quiet, He was well known for never smiling. So i remember a few weeks into the year i set myself the challenge of making him smile in one hour. I did it, but it was very hard… But it gave us a bit of a running joke about trees.
In october i started going out with his friend, that lasted till january.
But when i was with his friend I guess i kinda got a thing for james, but i wouldn’t even admit it to myself. I then Got him together with my friend, that lasted about 4/5 months.
But i never really noticed… but our friend said that since he had been talking to me he had become more open and happy. And smiled a lot more. Just before the summer holiday, he told me that he was in love with me… and we ended up having a bit of a summer fling.
But the other day, i was talking to my male friend and he said that ever since the start of last year, James had become a different person. And my friend said that was because of me.
Do you really thing i could of had that much effect on him? I didn’t even notice him change?
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yes, some times all someone needs is a friend when they are really down on themselves. shy people have trouble meeting people and can get really lonely and even more distant the longer they go by themselves. i actually lived the exact story you posted and i still love the girl 2 years later 🙂
YEA GIRL