Does this sound like my wife is cheating?

Wow! There are a few blinking red lights here:

1. Calling each other names.

2. Deleting these texts.

3. Her response.

4. She is talking to a guy that she knows you dislike.

5. He visits while you are at work.

6. She’s not having sex with you.

Conclusion:

1. calling each other names like babe and cute is wrong on so many levels.

2. deletion of texts, this obviously isn’t innocent.

3. she doesn’t want you knowing the truth.

4. she does not care how you feel about this guy.

5. why can’t he visit when you are around? makes you think…

6. MAYBE she is getting it from this guy or she is more attracted to him.

these things happened to me so many times, and i was right to think these guys weren’t faithful.

I could be wrong about her, but she is definitely hiding something. Best of luck to you, but my advice would be GET RID OF HER because she cannot be trusted. and learn from all of this.

The thing is … if a person is married, and a friendship with someone else makes their spouse feel threatened … then they drop this friendship.

We all have to choose which we want more … do we want this friend or do we want our spouse? We act accordingly. When you want to keep your marriage, you have to accept that there will be some degree of sacrifice and giving-up to keep it.

It really doesn’t matter if she is cheating or not. The fact is that you’re not happy with the sex and she’s not responding to your emotional needs. Cheating or not, if this can’t be fixed, the marriage is oin the rocks anyhow. Tell her you two are going into marriage counseling. And if she wont’ go … there’s nothing to work on, and it’s over anyway, so walk out on her.

Remember innocent until proven guilty! Friends call each other babe and that, and maybe he calls her cute to give her more co nfidence, and make her feel better in herself, I mean who doesnt compliment their friends? An they might miss talking to eachother and the friendly company! Dont assume everytime your not around they are ripping each others clothes off and jumping in to bed with each other. Just ask her can you meet him, if she says yes there isnt anything going on because it would be awkward spending time with you both. Dont do anything you regret untill you know the truth! Hope it works out for you.

These are suspicions not proofs, find the proofs. Put a camera. You should be a man and tell her that trouble is coming if she lets this guy in the house again. She’s doing whatever she wants with you it seems. There’s an app to spy on blackberry.

also she could have lied to you but told you that they guy comes to the house while you’re absent … so not sure if she’s cheating, it’s suspicious but anything can be true. So find your proofs

I agree with Liz you have to put up an ultimatum she cuts of contact with this guy or you two

separate how would she like it if you were telling another girl you love her. If she is not willing she is doing something? There is your answer and if she gets really defensive. Say me or him, say i am not supporting you going behind my back with another guy and by saying things like that she has already left. Ultimatum or separate i know this will be hard for you but you deserve someone who is there for you and only you. Her heart is not with you. If she decides to cut this guy off then counseling it is not as simple as that. She has crossed the line and frankly i am getting a little tired of these people saying you can still be friends with your exes no, there is underlying feelings and that is not fair to the current partner it is not about control it is about whether a person has moved on from the past because simply people have to, to be able to give themselves fairly to someone else its reality.

It is creating issues and people who create issues in their relationship it makes me wonder if they were really truly committed to that person for the right reasons in the beginning. If someone has an issue with a partner they need to solve and discuss it with their partner no one else. Letting anyone else of the opposite sex in on their problems is getting an emotional connection to another person out of their relationship, that is what you develop with your partner then again some men complain if there is issue they do not want to hear it, that is where they make the biggest mistake the woman will start looking for support elsewhere because she feels he is not listening to her or addressing her needs.

Its time for you to get serious and sit down with her and say this is how it is and this is not acceptable and this has to stop. You are destroying our relationship if you no longer want to be in the relation then leave, but this can not continue it is not fair on me. And simply i will not accept it.

Its decision time. Counseling if she stays or it can repeat itself again.

Source(s): Mental health Professional

If shes not already had sex with him, Id be surprised.

Bottom line, whether she’s had “actual” sex with him or not, it sounds like shes crossed a very serious line and its only a matter of time before shes sneaking him outta your bed.

If you want to save your marriage, confront her. Demand complete honestly, she should be as open as a book. Have her delete her facebook(since she cant be trusted with it) and cut all contact with the guy.

I’ve found it’s mighty hard to look someone straight into their eyes & lie. Did she have her arms crossed, which means she’s holding you away from her or shutting you out?! She could be telling you the truth & that’s just the sexy way they talk to one another. IF IF you just could drive by one day & ck. to see if he’s there. This IS one way you could really do a ck. on her IF you could do it with your line of work. Next time you ask, look more closely to ALL of her body language & see if you can better read her. It’s honestly hard to tell from all you’ve said…best to you, I trust she’s being faithful to you…:)

Yes, she’s cheating and disrespecting you big time. You should plan an unsuspecting visit in order to catch her in the act. Then you will know the truth for yourself. What’s so bad is that she isn’t even good at hiding it. First, tell her you no longer want him at your house while you’re at work and find out what her reaction is.

He comes over when you are at work?! Idk if she is cheating, but that alone is unacceptable. And calling him babe and telling him she loves and misses him is emotional cheating I would suspect. And deleting her text messages?

Tell her to go move in with him. Let him pay her bills. Loyalty to you doesn’t seem to be at the top of her list right now.

Yea man she is cheating on you go with your gut. He comes over when your not there, texts her all the time she erases it etc she is defiantly cheating I would try to catch her in the act and video tape it and air it all over the internet that will teach her.