Ever wonder if the people around you are the problem or if its you?

I feel like I have so many sucky people in my life. Judgemental very critical . I just want to spend time with people who have open mind who won’t judge or look at me like I am weird and just accept me as I am. I feel like I can’t connect with anyone and everytime I attempt to hangout with people more and give them a chance I get mad over again for even thinking I cn have a good time with them

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  • Not any more; I know we all contribute to each others woes, but most of it is all in how we, ourselves, choose to perceive things and deal with them. You can change almost any situation, for better or worse, just by changing the way you look at, and deal with, things.

    You cannot change other people; you can only change yourself and what you do.

  • Spend some time looking for a someone who understands who you are and appreciates being around you. You may feel like you can’t connect with anyone, but in a world with over six billion people there is bound to be a group of people just for you! Just make sure your not pretending to be anyone who you are not, then it gets really uncomfortable…

    I’m sure you will find a group of friends. Good luck!

    Nosoe

    Source(s): Experience

  • Perverted apes never get on, they never have.

    Bullies are extremely shallow and very rich. (Rich in spirit)

    They’ll blame anything but themselves, even the selfish gene.

    The rich/or ego construes it’s own reality in order justify it’s self. (Very insecure)

    It is judgmental, cowardice, and rejoices in unrighteousness/you might say gaining derrenged self gratification. It doesn’t know it’s self and has to justify it’s own neurosis, narcissism and even hubris.

    There are many forms of bullying, however the results for the individual are normally the same.

    When we’re seeking friendships or relationships we’re self seeking in others.

    These things are reciprocal and mirrored.

    So what we seek ourselves, we will find the person we seek looking for the same thing.

    Mentality and spirituality is fused and the eyes are the mirror of the soul, so seek and ye will find.

  • Well, you are very critical and judgmental yourself. But, I think you have some anxietyepression. You assume too much as well. It’s true you are who you hang out with, sorry but that’s been around for a million years, it’ll never change. You have to change yourself. Ask yourself this question: Why did I pick these type of people to hang out with????????? You picked them, know one else did. As soon as you change U, then everyone around you will change, and you will think that it is them that changed, not U!!!!!

  • Yeah, i find I don’t have any nice people about, and get harassed a lot.

  • people suck it’s their problem and if you don;t like it avoid them like i do but total no interaction is impossible

  • It happens to me too. It’s they

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