may i add that shes always saying that the guys at my school are ugly and loserish while the guys at her school are hawt and awsome. and shes always talking about how kewl she is to talk to at school and how everyone likes her.
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ok well. i relaly enjoy her company and all but wenever were together she goes on and on about how she’s so chill and awsome and hot and sexy and im jsut like….ok good fer u. but then she starts comparing me to her and i feel like ****. shes always like if guys think ur cute then i must be like a goddess and shes ALWAYS making fun of what i wear.. she critisizes me on everything . on what boys i like and my friends. she always calls me a lsoer and that my friends at school are losers too (she goes to a different school). she makes me feel like im the unimportant extra friend in her life (even though im supposedly her best friend since elementary). she trusts me with guy problems and when i answer her shes says haha wooow u actually know ur stuff. then adds on how she would never trust me with boy problems
and nonono i am not a geeky nerdy person….im actually prettier than her lol but i just never say it… i always go to her house looking foward to things but i come back feeling like the ugliest third wheel to her life.
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may i add that shes always saying that the guys at my school are ugly and loserish while the guys at her school are hawt and awsome. and shes always talking about how kewl she is to talk to at school and how everyone likes her.
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Well ppl who r outgoing usually talk more and talk b4 they think lol…If she is out going then she may be exaggerating about her social life. And yea, we all wanna stand out, and try 2 convince our friends to feel better around ourselves by telling others that our lives r better.
Source: personal experience, Im kinda like her, I know that sometimes I may be telling my friends how good my life is but afterward, I just feel stupid
If someone makes you feel crappy, get rid of them.
If you think you’re prettier than them and never say so, you have embitternment symdrome and need to pull your head in.
If the guys at your school and ugly and loserish, they’re probably awesome at video games and this makes them ‘hawt’.
If you state mroe than once in a question that some guys are hawt and others are loserish, you’re probably a very shallow person and again, need to pull your head in that little bit further.
HAVE A GREAT DAY ^_^
She obviously knows you are prettier. I really don’t get this thing. If a pretty girl is aware that she is pretty then why would she feel bad if someone calls her ugly? I am considered ugly because I’m not a stick and I hate it. Now I don’t know if I’m pretty or not. I never understand how you KNOW you are pretty and still feel like ****. If you are trying to be nice then chill about it. You know that if you are nice she will still use you to get some reassurance on how she looks. She wants to make herself feel better. If you are as pretty as you say then you are pretty. Chill and tell your friend that you feel like she doesn’t need you to be a friend to her so leave her. If you still want to be her friend you are going to have to deal with it.
well it sounds to me that she is just jealous of the way u are, the way u percent yourself. i mean if guys are telling u that they think ur cute that’s a good thing not that ur all hot and stuff, to tell u the truth guys like it when girls are cute then just sexy. I had a friend just like that and she would always get mad when guys talked to me more but it was because she was just to into herself. I think since u know her the best, u should just talk to her and tell her what u feel. having a friend like that is not worth it…really i know…If she is really your “Best friend” she wouldn’t be putting u down…that’s not a friend….remember u are different from her …u are ur own person ..if she doesn’t like the way u are or what u wear then that’s her problem …don’t change because of her… good luck..^_^
Well I think that you have yourself a rivalry. Rivalries often start out as friendships, and therefore are easy to disguise as friendships.
Basically, when one friend is comparing herself, or measuring herself against another friend, then jealousy starts to breed. It doesnt matter whos prettier, smarter, more popular. The person who is judging themselves based on the other person is bound to find something they think they cant measure up to. So they start to compete. And most of the time its not friendly competition.
I think this girl thinks she has to “better” you to feel good about herself. I would be careful with this friend, as from my experience, they tend to be very self centered and only care whats good for you if it doesnt compete with them. Girls like this need to knock other girls down to feel good about themselves. I wouldnt be surprised if this girl turns real nasty in the future. Avoid telling her any secrets you dont want passed around thats for sure. And watch your back.
Source(s): 30 year old woman wisdom
honestly if your friend does that is cuz she actualy thinks ur prettier then her and she cant let u know that so she has to put u down that way she looks better. try not to ignore her for a bit and if she starts asking whats wrong just tell her how she makes u feel like ****
straight up your friend is a witch with a capital b
i had a friend like that from 5th grade to my junior year in high school.
guys always liked me over her because i was chill with them and didn’t get all stupid and tried to impress them. but she would tell me that they felt sorry for me. your friend just likes to talk down to you to make herself feel better that’s what my ex best friend did to me.
i stopped being friends with her the end of my junior year and it was the best thing i ever decided to do. i’m in college now and she’s trying to be friends with me again cause she doesn’t have anymore friends to talk down to to make herself feel better, maybe you should do what i did.
if your friend keeps being stupid like this with you call her out.
stand up for yourself and tell her she needs to stop being so big headed cause no one likes that.
i hope this helps.