Help! Should I try to get back together with my ex gf?

We dated for about a month. We had a lot of fun and never fought or argued. Then out of the blue she said she just couldn’t love me and ended it but she said she still wanted to be friends. We only talked briefly here and there via text and the odd hello when we seen each other at school (college). This lasted for about two months and then she started texting me more often and we chatted here and there for another month. She said that her bestfriend wants us to get back together (I have never met this friend before so it is based only on what my ex told her about me) but she said she doesn’t like getting back together with ex’s and the conversation ended their. For the next month (4 now since breakup) we talked more frequently and have hungout a couple times, went for dinner and walks by the water. She hasn’t mentioned getting back together again but I think she wants to. Her friend is coming here in just over a month and she has asked me to take them out to a club and wanted to know if I wanted to go on a 2 day trip to a theme park then to a really nice waterfall/park with them while her friend is here. I still have feelings for her and really want to get back together with her but not sure what to do. I don’t want to lose her as a friend by making things awkward again but I also don’t want to just let her go yet. I tried going on a couple of dates with other girls but we didn’t connect like I did with my ex. What should I do?

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  • WEIRD!!! This is exactly like me but I’m the girl and he broke up with me. This is so amazing it gives me lots of hope!! Anyways, I would just confess that you either want to fix things now, you can’t keep dragging this out because its painful to you. So give her the choice either fix things or stop this weird ex hanging out thing. She will be honest with how she feels and if she wants to fix things she will then try. But if not, she will try to onvicne you to be friends. You can later apologize and say friends sounds good if you totally don’t want to lose her

    Also when she said her friend thinks you should get together, I think that meant she wanted you to agree with her!! I’m pretty sure she still likes you:):):):)

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