Hi… ive been in love with a girl for 2 years and she loved me too,, but a recent fight has ruined us…now she is my friend again..but i still love her…how can i make her fall for me again?
Open Question
be the person she falls before.
and make more efforts..
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tell her
I don’t know if there is a way to get her to “fall” for you again. You just have to be nice and sweet and if you do that she will start to love you, but hold on to your friendship that’s the key to a relationship.
do goofy crap like read her some poetry, anything to make her laugh
There really is no way to make a person fall in love with another person, it’s a choice they make.
I think you’re making a mistake by thinking that what you had with her was love. If you and this girl were really, truly in love then the fight wouldn’t have ruined the two of you. People I know who are in love fight all the time and are still very happily together. Because they love one another they fight, work out their differences and move on.
This is the difference between being in love and simply liking someone and at your age loving someone is impossible. You don’ have the emotional or spiritual knowledge to be a true lover, so don’t worry about getting her to fall back in love with you it wouldn’t be true love, it would just be extremely liking this person.
Also, if you love a person you will let them go because you value their emotions and feelings more than your own. Do you understand that? If you love someone you’ll always put them first because they are more important than you are.
It’ll probably take some time but if you really want to try to get her back just be her friend and show her that your still the same guy she fell for before. Don’t try to pressure her back into it she has to realize it on her own. If she doesn’t go for it move on because then you two might not be meant for each other. good luck.