If you are gay and dated the opposite sex before dating the same sex, what was the big difference when you finally started dating someone of your gender? Were you more enthusiastic about it/stronger emotions/more satisfied/felt giddy like a teenager? How did it feel?
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A feeling of relief.
Release from bad emotions.
Acceptance of myself, rather than trying to be (what I am not).
Happiness & joy, almost an enlightenment.
Rush of positive thoughts & seeing a future together with someone, long term.
There was a guy that I always liked, but it was way weird. Of course nothing ever happened. Anything that I ever did in my limmited experiance with men never did anything for me… making out with a guy, I might as well have been making out with a dead fish… I really just was like “omg, I want this to be over…” I was embarassed and confused because I thought that I liked him. I think because of my conservitive up-brining I subconciously started “crushing” on gay guys because I never would ever get with them… lol. For the same reason, whenever I’ve been asked out by a girl I get so nervous and scared. I hope that I’ll be able to stop being afraid… and take the plunge someday with someone nice.
All of what you said…giddy, enthusiastic, stronger emotions and more satisfied. felt like a great weight was lifted off me.
Relieved..
Gosh…
I had spent so long trying to turn myself straight by dating guys.
When my X BF held my hand.. it felt like a friend.. I knew he liked me more than one, and I felt so wrong for it.
I went out with him for three months without even kissing him on the cheek.
That is when I knew for sure I could never be with a guy.
This girl.. I’ve been talking to her for awhile now…
I hope that.. once things progress more, we can get a bit more serious…
It just feels so right.. I’m falling for her 🙂
I feel satisfied.. I feel happier..
I used to feel depressed as, cause I didn’t have anyone who felt the same way about me.. I was so lonely.
(Dang just check out my old Q’s… I was a sad kid hahaa)
Iam BI
i never really dated the same gender but i always whanted to
when i found out i was bi i felt stronger and more emotions
All the colours shone brighter, I was happier, everything made sense!!
Very satisfied..
I felt nothing because I haven’t dated either sex. I haven’t dated sh*t. FML.
Home, I felt like I was finally at home.
Just so so contented and able to be the real me.
More relaxed & comfortable