How should i go about asking him out? Or how can i get him to ask me out?
I am kind of boy shy…. :p
I hate being rejected but he is somebody i can see myself dating.
Write out a note that says:
“Will you go out with me?”
Circle Yes or No
Now give it to him
You need to get to know him out side of english classes, arrange a day out with a load of mates, just randomly mention in a conversation with him that you’re going to see a movie with a load of mates (so Its not awkward) and ask him if he’d like to tag along. Laugh at his jokes even if they’re not funny (As Long As Its Convincing)
Get his msn or facebook or whatever and just talk to him. flirt a little but not too much. Get to know him etc.
Once you’re comfortable ask him out. ( If He doesnt ask you out first Lol) 😀
First think about what you really want. Do you want to get to know him better and possibly be his girlfriend? Or do you just want a date?
If you just want to get to know him better, do that. Then you don’t need to worry about the pressure of asking him out. Just make an observation about something that might interest you both, for example something going in your English class, and see if wants to have a conversation.
If you just want a date, be direct — “I’d like to go the prom and I think it would be fun if we went together. What do you think?”
I know this is harder than it sounds, but you could just ask him to go to a movie with you or something.
If that’s to straightforward for you, as it was for me when I was fifteen, try just being his friend. Younger men tend to look for women they can count on, and girls they can talk to. And that way, you might grow closer.
You should try to get to know him more you know strike up a conversation. If after talking to him and u still want to ask him out then do it. Cause if u wait then ur gonna be stuck waiting. my friend was in the same situation and the guy liked her back, no one asked each other out so they were stuck wondering wat would have happened. SO go for it..unless ur really shy but u might end up regretting not doing it.
try sitting next to him and starting a conversation. if u see he is flirting back with u then try asking him for his number or IM screen name. anything to talk out of school. once u get that its all about being urself and seeing if there is a connection other than a physical one. if there is whether u ask him out or he does its gonna happen. good luck hun
Just go up to him and tell him you like him and would like to hang out with him. The direct approach works more often than you think.
Simply go up to him and ask him. But i understand if you are nervous.maybe you could right him a little note.
Too many girls do the asking. Please don’t ask him out. If he isn’t man enough to put himself out there and work for you then he is not worth your time. I promise, it’s always a good plan to let the boys pursue you….It separates the boys from the men 🙂
just use the simple start a conversation,and then bring up a topic of dating, then ask him out…thats what i would do……..
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Write out a note that says:
“Will you go out with me?”
Circle Yes or No
Now give it to him
You need to get to know him out side of english classes, arrange a day out with a load of mates, just randomly mention in a conversation with him that you’re going to see a movie with a load of mates (so Its not awkward) and ask him if he’d like to tag along. Laugh at his jokes even if they’re not funny (As Long As Its Convincing)
Get his msn or facebook or whatever and just talk to him. flirt a little but not too much. Get to know him etc.
Once you’re comfortable ask him out. ( If He doesnt ask you out first Lol) 😀
Source(s): It’s Full Proof 😉
First think about what you really want. Do you want to get to know him better and possibly be his girlfriend? Or do you just want a date?
If you just want to get to know him better, do that. Then you don’t need to worry about the pressure of asking him out. Just make an observation about something that might interest you both, for example something going in your English class, and see if wants to have a conversation.
If you just want a date, be direct — “I’d like to go the prom and I think it would be fun if we went together. What do you think?”
Source(s): Life, life, and life.
I know this is harder than it sounds, but you could just ask him to go to a movie with you or something.
If that’s to straightforward for you, as it was for me when I was fifteen, try just being his friend. Younger men tend to look for women they can count on, and girls they can talk to. And that way, you might grow closer.
Source(s): Life, love, and pursuing (not necessarily attaining) happiness.
You should try to get to know him more you know strike up a conversation. If after talking to him and u still want to ask him out then do it. Cause if u wait then ur gonna be stuck waiting. my friend was in the same situation and the guy liked her back, no one asked each other out so they were stuck wondering wat would have happened. SO go for it..unless ur really shy but u might end up regretting not doing it.
try sitting next to him and starting a conversation. if u see he is flirting back with u then try asking him for his number or IM screen name. anything to talk out of school. once u get that its all about being urself and seeing if there is a connection other than a physical one. if there is whether u ask him out or he does its gonna happen. good luck hun
Just go up to him and tell him you like him and would like to hang out with him. The direct approach works more often than you think.
Simply go up to him and ask him. But i understand if you are nervous.maybe you could right him a little note.
Too many girls do the asking. Please don’t ask him out. If he isn’t man enough to put himself out there and work for you then he is not worth your time. I promise, it’s always a good plan to let the boys pursue you….It separates the boys from the men 🙂
Source(s): My boyfriend is my hero and the one who was willing to chase me down lol…..and I never have to wonder if he’s cheating on me cuz he worked hard to get me….if i wasn’t worth it to him he would dump me cuz i dont make the first moves ever.. 🙂
just use the simple start a conversation,and then bring up a topic of dating, then ask him out…thats what i would do……..