If you look at my previous questions you will see a lot of what I’m going through, I can’t be bothered explaining everything. Basically my school found out I’d been self-harming a few months ago and a few weeks afterwards the school found out my best mate had been self harming. Everyone hates me I have no friends and I’m depressed and have anxiety issues I’ve not been diagnosed with these things and when the school found out about my self-harm I had like two meetings with my head of house and a school councillor. My mate has a really nice life and loads of friends and no-one picks on her or bullys her and she told me that she’s self-harming because her mum had a miscarriage about 3 yrs ago :/// she had loads of meetings with lots of different people and is gettign councilling. Her mum hasn’t paid for anything as she gets benefits and stuff. I think the school must’ve thought I’d stopped aswell and they don’t realise that I’m depressed and have anxiety issues. I still don’t see how this is fair at all, I wouldn’t say I’m jealous of her getting attention, I just feel brushed under the rug, like no-one cares about what I’m going through 🙁 why is this happening!!!
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Can your parents pay for a counselor? Otherwise try asking the school for help (it sounds like they have plenty of people) or go to a free mental health clinic.
The difference between her and you is she’s clearly been open and up front about what’s going on with her, and you haven’t. Follow her example. Walk into the counselor’s office and lay it all out on the table and that this is still an ongoing problem for you and you need help. If you find it too difficult to talk about it, write it down and slip it under her door and let her come find you.
Because, ultimately, no one REALLY does care (with the exception of your family). Only YOU can make yourself happy…stop looking to other people to fill that void because, ultimately, you will continue this cycle of disappointment. Seek professional advice only.
there is a South Park episode about this problem you are having and the cure is ALCOHOL, lol
me too 🙁