I like my ex's best friend!?

Okay. I’ve liked my exs friend for a while now. I went to his house this weekend and stayed the night with his sister. Of course he was there. Well Saturday we were all drinking and he started to rub my feet for me and rub my back and it was soo nice. I told him I wasnt having sex with him and he was okay with that. He always smiles at me and he is really nice to me. I know he thinks I’m cute. He slaps my butt and I tell him not to. He still does it. I dont want to just have sex with him I want to be with him. I only see him on the weekends. He goes to The Vocational school. He lives right in town so I could see him any time. But how can I know if I should keep trying to be with him? People say hes really sweet and I believe he is. Im just confused. And advice??

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Okay. I’ve liked my exs friend for a while now. I went to his house this weekend and stayed the night with his sister. Of course he was there. Well Saturday we were all drinking and he started to rub my feet for me and rub my back and it was soo nice. I told him I wasnt having sex with him and he was okay with that. He always smiles at me and he is really nice to me. I know he thinks I’m cute. He slaps my butt and I tell him not to. He still does it. I dont want to just have sex with him I want to be with him. I only see him on the weekends. He goes to The Vocational school. He lives right in town so I could see him any time. But how can I know if I should keep trying to be with him? People say hes really sweet and I believe he is. Im just confused. And advice??

Clear this up alittle. My ex is having a baby with another girl He says he hates me and he cheated on me. I have NO feelings for him anymore. I focused on the other guy.

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  • Butt-slapper = Keeper

    Age old rule. If he ignores the heinie he’s probably whiny. If he taps your rear call him Dear.

    Count on it.

  • Don’t let the fact that he’s friends with your ex get in the way of how sweet he is, and how much you like him. That would be silly. Talk to him about it. If your ex gets mad… He doesn’t have the right to. You’re both apart now. And if he knocked up another girl, hates you, AND cheated on you, why the hell would he care anyway?

  • he will definitly know about what you and your ex were like in bed dats what lads talk about no matter hw nice or sweet they are…they know you wont find ou coz there not gona go saying anything to you so just keep that in mind..he could be thinking its my turn with her and by what he was doing back rubs foot rubs and just coz u said no 2 sex if he stills be nice he knows he’l ave a better chance next time by keeping his cool and not trying 2 pressure you…sorry 4 sounding so mean but thats just what i think the majority of lads are like and not every1 is the same…but maybe its just better to find a complete stranger to be with who needs al the awkwardness and jealousy that comes with dating your ex’s freinds…think of what could happen when ders fighting what can be said and done

  • you should just go to the moviesm or something with him and like right when the movie is about to start u shoul just be like ur not just trying to get in my pants right and if it takes him long to answer then dump him and if he doesnt then he is good and if he keeps in touch with u after the date then hes good … also if he kisses u when u leave then he wants a pelationship… he sounds nice

  • You don’t even have a problem. Date him, he likes you enough to hang with you instead of his best friend. So really you should just date him, cause, like I said, he likes you enough to disregard the fact your his best friends ex.

  • well so far he has treated you like a slut. he has no respect for you. you ask him not to touch you and he still does.to me their is nothing to be confused about. you got two guys who take advantage of you . they see you as easy. get rid of the both of them you do not need the ****. plus you need to be a respectable person.you need to better than this. you are better than this.do not let no guy treat you like a slut. like i said respect your self.

  • i say tell him how you feel cause honestly that’s the only way anything will ever even happen and honestly for all you know he probably wants a relationship to if its meant to be it’ll happen trust me (:

  • i know you like him, and call me crazy but im sure he likes you too..

    but dont do it. its not worth it.

    i dated my ex’s bestfriend., and he was just like him.

    left me heart broken.

    wait and see how things play out.

    i mean it seems it me that all he wants is to get in your pants.

    oviously your better than that.

    so yeah. lol

    hope i helped.

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  • One rule: NEVER date an ex’s friend or acquaintance!

    Would you like it if your ex started dating one of your friends?

  • Im sure he has a small wang and a hairy bush- do you like that? Plus he has a yeast infection, and it smells like cottage cheese. YUCK- There now you dont like him! yay

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