i dont want the tip “bring a friend with u” since i am an adult. we flirted over the phone so we might end up having sex but we’re going on a date first. any tips?
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Always have your car, your phone charged and cash. Do not let him take you anywhere else, especially in his car.
Do a background check. There have been stories in the news about women who met a man on a dating website and ended up being raped. Dating sites don’t do background check.
Don’t go anywhere private with him until you get to know him really well. It takes time. Don’t rush things, be patient.
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First answer is great.
Try to meet for coffee or lunch at a crowded, public place.
Have your cell phone, pepper spray or a whistle on you. Do not carry large amounts of cash.
DO NOT leave with him (ex. he might be like “oh let me drive you home”) DO NOT!!
Make sure you tell someone where you are going to be incase anything happens and you don’t make it back home, someone will know where you should have been.
Don’t give out any personal information.
If everything goes well, then agree to meet again (IN A PUBLIC PLACE AS WELL).
DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!
You have just met this person for the first time (in person). You have NO idea if he may have any disease, or if he may rape or sexually assault you. It is a BIG mistake to go back to his place or even your place alone.
Be safe.
Why would you even think about having sex with a guy you just met on line. What’s wrong with you? You don’t know what this guy may have. Always meet in a public place, and do not give him your address. Never go anywhere with him on your first meeting. Use your instincts. If it doesn’t feel right, then it probably isn’t. Always check your surroundings.
I need some safety tips for meeting up with a guy i met online?
i dont want the tip “bring a friend with u” since i am an adult
clearly you want to get physically hurt, that’s the only explaination for not bringing a friend
Public place.
And don’t have sex at his house. Go to your place, to be safe, have a friend call you at a set time to check in. This is also a good way to get out of a bad date.
If you are making a date for sex..just call it what it is…and get your cash up front
If sex is involved..please do go to a private place