I dont know wat to do ?. Last night when I was having sex with my wife we were in a 69 position and while going thru the deep pleasure i started murmuring my wife’s sister name and I am sure my wife also heard it. I am feeling big embarassment. Please advice
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First of all why are you thinking about your wife’s sister in such a way. If you do not love your wife and desire her sister you should be honest and forthcoming. It will hurt but at least she will know where you two stand but I am sure she does not. This is not something that can be easily fixed and shows your wife you do not love, care for, or cherish her but in fact you have been desiring her sister for a long time and wish to have sex with and be with her. This might result in a divorce especially if you and her sister have been intimate. I hope you two have not. You are a grown man and know right from wrong and mumuring her name was a conscious decision and now you must live with the consequences. If my husband did that to me I would be deeply hurt and question our marriage and his faithfulness to me. I would question each time my sister came around but would not stop her because what will be will be. I would be very upset for a while but if you did not sleep with her the bible tells me I cannot leave a man because of lustful thoughts but things would never be the same. You two need to sit down and talk about this before it destroys you completely. That was a hurtful thing you did.
that’s a tough one… I’m sure its normal to fantasize about other people sometimes, but that other person be the sister… ouch. you can’t say you were fantasizing, and you can’t say you were thinking about issues that may be occurring with her… If you think she heard, maybe its best if you bring it up (but have an escape plan, in case she didn’t heard it)… just ask if she heard you say someone else’s name… and if she says yes and that it was her sis’ name then come clear… and if she didn’t hear then (you can be still honest and tell her) or tell her it was your favorite actress, or something… and remind her that you love her and only want to be with her…
that does sound worrying. If you dont have a crush on your sister in law then reassure your wife and start over
otherwise..i think you know what to do
best of luck x
I would say you are in a deep ****. How would you feel in her situation?
