Im 18 yrs, and my boyfriend is 22 we're engage, should I have sex with him now or I wait until I am marry?

That’s up to you. – Do it when you’re ready.

Well this is a decision that you would have to make but it all depends on what your stand are on things. If you were trying to wait until you are married then why break it now when you have made it this far but if you weren’t really waiting until you are married then go ahead. You don’t buy a car without test driving it to make sure it handles well and fits you so why would you make a life long commitment to someone without knowing if you two are compatible in bed. Yeah sex is not the most important aspect of a marriage but if everyone was having good sex their would be far less divorces. Sex keeps you two connected in a way dates, conversation and cuddling can’t.

Neither sex nor marriage would be a good idea at your age. Wait give it a few more years if your still with him @ age 22 then marry him… you want to give yourself plenty of time to make sure he’s what you really want, granted I know you might think he is or “know” he is but you might find your real special someone later on down the road and you don’t want to end up in divorce at 18 or 19 or get pregnant and he decides he doesn’t want you or the baby and there you are all alone, single and stuck with a baby that will be difficult to support. Stop… Think… Wait… equals Good Decisions and self-respect

Wait until you are married- that will be the best. There is always a chance that you may end up not married to him, you don’t want to regret that. If he really loves and respects you then he will not bother you about it. If you can’t wait that long, then consider a shorter engagement. I have always believed that for this reason, engagements should not last more than 4 months except in extreme situations.

You should do what you feel is right and are comfortable with. If you’ve been “saving” yourselves for marriage, why change now? Are you getting married soon? If you have a long engagement and can’t wait, it really depends on how the two of you feel about it and whether you are emotionally ready. Also, if you do, make sure to use protection. You don’t want to get pregnant right away – you’ll have plenty of time for that later on.

You should wait.

Engaged is not married.

I don’t wish you ill, but I have had plenty of friends who were engaged and didn’t wind up getting married.

Dating is a time to evaluate whether or not you want to pursue a relationship with someone. Engagement is ‘the real deal’, ‘fish or cut bait’ time. Until the ring is on your finger, the commitment is not final. Either one of you could decide it’s a ‘no go’. So, just wait. You show more respect for yourself AND your future spouse by waiting.

P.S. – I had a friend who’s fiancee broke it off AFTER they had sex… turns out the only reason he proposed was to get to the ‘next level’ and get into bed with her. Be careful!

I think you should wait. You may or may not be a christian but I’m telling you that if you wait until you are married, the sex is going to be the same only more special cause you waited. God has brought this person into your life and you are going to marry him. The two of you will become one and the sex will be great. Just wait and make it special on your wedding night. If your fiance will wait this long I’m sure he won’t mind waiting a little longer.

i’m 22 and my GF is almost 19 in a few days…. We’ve been together 1yr&9 months and waited to have sex 2 months is kinda long however if he loves you and has respect for you he will understand. But you don’t have to (DO IT) but try other things like oral or playing with him to please eachother… So if you do sleep with him make sure your both cool with it and USE A CONDOM or at least be on birth control to pervent a little uh oh…

Have (protected) sex but wait on marriage ur too young especially if u never had sex before. If u get married to this guy and then have sex u might get disappointed or find out u want to try others that is what ur 20’s are for (dah ur BOY-friend is 22) experimenting and exploring marriage is for ready to settle down mid 35 & up people. Think like ur boy-friend with what is between ur legs. My daughter is 18 and now knocked up and I thought she new better because I taught her about protection and not being ready for grown people life (minus my kidding about the legs comment) what I’m trying to convey is that girls mature faster than boys physacally and mentaly when boys grow up they are still boys just in mens body (example women think about sex maybe 3x’s a week men think about sex every 15 seconds) go to ask.com and ask the ? how often do men think about sex? And another tip is men know and they teach their sons that women do every thing with their emotions men let their penis think for them.

How long have you been going out before you got engaged?

I personally think sex is very important in a marriage so I would want to check out the goods before I got married. Whats the point of being with someone who can not satisify you in bed? I believe many people divorce because of sex and cheating partners. Only my opinion Im sure not many will agree

If your are not ready for sex with him then wait. You will have the rest of your lives together to learn and explore together. Is he pushing you for sex? Don’t give in to the “if you love me you will” scheme. You didn’t say how long until the wedding, but I think you will feel better about yourself if you wait until your wedding night to give that special part of yourself to him. You can proudly tell your children that you were proud to save yourself until marriage. I am very proud of you and don’t even know you. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. The final decision is yours. Good luck, God bless and congratulations.