They broke up and him and i started hanging out at a party, we started flirting a lot and he told me he liked me and blah blah blah, we had sex and he didn’t use a condom, i didn’t get my period and started to worry so i got a pregnancy test and it was positive i’m roughly 2 1/2 weeks preggers and im so scared to tell him cause we used to joke when he was dating her what he would do if she got pregnant and he said he’d run to mexico and **** like that. im scared to tell her cause i don’t want to ruin our friendship, can you please give me some advice, GOOD advice please and thank you 🙁
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There is really not much advise that can help. It’s too late to try and salvage the friendship unless she is REALLY understanding. That should have come to mind before you had sex with her boyfriend. As far as him, you need to confront him> I doubt he’ll leave but you need to make arrangements to get support for the baby. Last choice would be to get an abortion which can be emotionally devastating. Good luck, you’ve gotten yourself into this situation like many, many other people.
Wait a bit before you do anything-you have a couple of weeks to think this out. if you have an abortion, it will stay with you all your life, and haunt you, but that may be better than having a baby that you are not ready for. Having children is ABSOLUTELY EXHAUSTING and is best done when you really want them. Could you consider having the baby and offerreing the chlild for adoption? there are couples who’s pain at being childless is almost unbearable, women who want a child so much they could die of pain.
Be kind and forgive yourself, forgive him. Don’t tell him the child is his, but maybe that you are pregnant and tell him your plan, see what he says. I’d say don’t tell your freind,(it will add extra rubbish that you don’t need to worry about righ now) it really doesn’t matter who did what and when. She and he will probably move out of your orbit in a while anyway.
She’s going to find out either way weather she hears it from you or someone else. It will ruin the friendship if you keep this a secret from her. Stop hooking up with your friend’s boyfriends. If you were that smart you would of have had him use a condom.
You’re going to have to tell him. You just can’t hide pregnancy like you can other things. Just because you flirt with guys doesn’t mean they automatically want to have sex with you. The point is you have ruined something and this is something that you can’t get out of and have to live with this decision for the rest of your life because of this new responsibility.
There is not much good advice we can give to that hun. You should have put a rubber on it. end of. You know if you dont use protection babies are made. Perhaps your example will warn others reading this in future how not to end up. You tell the bloke the truth. You tell your mate the truth. You cannot circumvent around it.
ok well you know what you did was silly and now you have to decide what to do do you want to keep the baby if so you need to tell him and you need to confess to your friend. your friendship and relationship with that guy is not so important you are carrying a baby right now and need to go see a doc start being realistic. It won’t just disappear. Do you have some other friends that you can talk to or a sister or your mother can you talk to any of them
Um… Try not to be a slut. Since its too late for that, I recommend contacting MTV. They give shows to sluts all the time. If you’re young enough you can get on 16 and pregnant.
that sucks! and that guy is a punk 4 abandoning his child
umm good luck with parenting
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tell him and if he runs throw his *** in jail. and you and your best friends friend ship is over girly.
Stop being a skank.