ok, so my friend hook me up with one of her guy friends in Minnesota. so i started texting him then started liking him. He showed me his picture and he’s hot and cute. but after texting him for awhile, i found out he is a player. n now it’s very hard for me to forget him. everything i do, he is in my mind and he’s the first guy i fell in love with. so what should i do. i know he’s a player, but is it wise to get with him or not. that’s bcuz i’m also sure in the future, we’ll just break up due to him being a player….so i don’t know what to do now. when i start reading something in my classes, i can never get him off my mind. and we talked on the phone for awhile too. I also found out eveything he told me is a lie (from the phone to every single text messages he sent me is a lie, along with every word he says), but now it’s a bit too late for me to forget him….it’s very complicated. what should i do? i’ve tried so hard to forget him, but i can’t. he’s the first guy i had ever talked with on the phone and ever flirted with. so now, once i found out, it’s just so complicated to forget him. what should i do?
Update:
Schnickerface, if ur so smart wat other words would you call a player? u no how hard it is for me right now. it’s so complicated trying to get someone i luv out of my heart…and i had never EVER EVER flirted with any other guys except him. He’s the first guy i had ever talk with in my sweetest voice. but after founding out such things about him, i was surprise! and all women are not whores asshole! Just because i’m a woman doesn’t make me a whore. I know that. but the guy i talked with is a player. I found that out because he texted one of my other friends! then she came and told me! so every world that came out of his mouth is a lie! it’s just u that have been through something different which makes you think all women are complete whores. I never said all guys are complete players! some guys are, like the one i’m trying to forget right now! u just met the wrong girls alright?! just like me, i met the wrong boy, but i also know that i just met the wrong boy on my first impression!
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just take it one step at at time. youll get over him.
i was in the same situation as you and i had to do the same.
Just know that you are a very smart girl and you can do better than him. You don’t need a player when you can find someone that can actuakky cherish you and stay with you. Just know that what he is doing is bad because he is using the hearts of girls and braking them into pieces.
you have just learned a valuable lesson that a lot of women dont learn until much later in life…..
here is the lesson, dont fall in love until you know someone. what that means is by all means talk to them, go out on dates with them and sit back, watch and listen and work out what their character is BEFORE you give up your heart or your body.
if you let yourself fall in love with a guy because he is cute or you talk on the phone and he flirts with you, then more than likely you will always get hurt because you dont know him and if he is worth falling in love with.
there is nothing you really can do about forgetting him, we all remember our first loves, and more than half of us were rejected by them. you should seek our a different guy. here’s a tip, you and a bunch of girlfriends go to a comic book convention, and go to the cosplay area. if you think that link, or inuyasha has a tight butt, go get him. plus the whole convention is fun by itself.
Staaay As Far as you can away from him to be honest he aint worth it is hes guna be like that so delete his number and loose contact x
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get your friend to set you up with a non player
Ok. Everytime you think of him, think of something he did tht u hated. you will begin to connect him to negativity. and get a new boy, and keep busy. good luck:)
God stop using the word player! And shut the hell up, women are whores so what’s the difference. Just F.U.C.K him and get it the hell over with, jesus christ!
way too long, didn’t feel like reading it…