Is it appropriate to throw a 40th bday party for my boyfriend when I haven’t met his family?

My boyfriend and I started dating in December and he is going to be 40 in June. I would love to throw him a surpise party but the problem is, I still haven’t met his family. We have a commited relationship and do not keep the fact that we’re together a secret yet the opportunity to meet his family still has not arisen.
He’s a super special part of my life and I would love to throw him the party that I know he would love.

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  • Answerer 1

    To handle the family part of it, just skip the part about the party being a surprise. He’s a grown man and he knows it’s a big birthday. Just be open about it. That way if you haven’t met the family by then you can simply invite them. What a great circumstance for meeting!

    Best of luck.

  • Answerer 2

    Yes you should, it shows that you care, also it is the start of a new decade for him so it is an important birthday and deserves to be celebrated!

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