Is it really gonna hurt?

Q: “We’ve decided that I’m gonna be the bottom guy,”

A: Whatcha’ do? Flip a coin?

You know there are such things as two-headed coins, right? I’m just saying, because if you flip a coin with certain guys, you’ll always end up on the bottom! Real talk!!

Source(s): I own a two headed coin that I use for special occasions

No – only hurts if you aren’t ready, if you rush it and don’t use lube. Getting ready: you can find all kinds of info about anal online and am sure you have both watched vids and know what’s done. . . search around and findout how to clean yourself up before you do it: makes it nicer for both of you, specially if you don’t use condoms. Can you get your hands on a dildo or plug so you can practice having something inside you and get used to the feeling? If you can’t get a real toy, then improvise with something from the veggie department! He isn’t so big that you need to stretch or “train” ur butt to take him……just a matter of getting used to it. Get yourself some real lube: don’t use hand lotion or cooking oil but real lube (I like m2m silicone lubes, like Eros, from the adult store but you can get some good-enuff at the drug store, WalMart, etc). HAVE LOTS OF TIME so he doesn’t have to be rushed………you want to take it nice and slow and easy, specially first time. It absolutely doesn’t have to hurt even the first time: there are new sensations to get used to – like a “full” feeling when he’s in you…..it will feel different than anything b4 but you’ll like it and not want it to stop !!!! You’ll be a little nervous of course, but just remember that it’s all very natural and you’ll both know what to do.

(OK, I fantasized about it since I was a little kid……imagined exactly what it would feel like……finally did it at 14 and it was EXACTLY the way I thought it would be, felt the way I thought it would, etc. First time was great……and it just gets better. Enjoy!!)

If it hurts, or you bleed, then YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG!!!

You have to go slow, very slow, and use lots of lube. Start with fingering, first just one finger, then a second one, and when you can take three, then you might be able to go on to something else. And ffs, make sure you use a condom.

In all honesty, if the age of consent is older than 15 where you live, you should wait until you’ve reached the age of consent, because one or both of you are at risk of being charged as sex offenders if anyone finds out you’ve had sex.

Um BobbyD dosnt know what he’s talking about!You can have sex at whatever age an not be charged as long as Ur both close to the same age,And it’s only going to hurt a little.And that’s at first.But you’ll be more in shock at how good it starts feel.so no worries:) Have fun.Your not to young.JUST SAYIN!:]

if it’s done right, it shouldn’t hurt past a minute or 2 as he settles in… but once he’s all the way inside it shouldn’t hurt badly, maybe pleasurably… but it shouldn’t be like painful… suggestions… tell him to rim ur *** first, for a long time, the longer the better.. after he’s done of a long time of rimming, tell him to finger u… start with one finger.. and keep going up… don’t think u should try for more than 3 fingers… but tell him to finger ufor a lil while with 1… then with 2… and IF you can take it, with 3… but to do it extremely slowly and carefully… now…

i’m going to tell u… i am a total top, i have hardly been penetrated, and i don’t like anything in my behind really… i have been fingered and had guys f- me…. and i find that fingers are wayyyyy more uncomfortable than a d**k, idk if it’s the same for every1, but at leats for me it is… sooo i’m just warning u, it might feel uncomfortable, but i’m telling u this so u stick with it, fingers can help loosen u up , so when he puts his d**k inside of u, it can slide in more easily, and won’t hurt as much….

and after a while of fingering…tell him to use a lot of lube, put lube on his d**k, the condom (idk if u guys are going to use condoms, if u guys have never had sex, it’s pretty safe to do it without a condom… u wouldn’t get anything… but there are diseases out there, and iw ould suggest u to strt getting used to condom, cuz u will probably have sex with other guys eventually, and really, doing it without a condom can be adicting… adn u might sometime run into some1 who has hiv or something… so try to get used t othe condom, don’t be getting diseases just for a few minutes or at most a few hours of pleasure),and then put lube in ur ***, most people just put lube on their ***, but don’t really go inside with the lube.. i would suggest u try pushing the lube inside of u, have him finger u lube into ur ***..and then tell him to go extremely slowly when he’s ready to penetrate u… extreemly extremely extremely slowly…

good luck, hope that helps and that u enjoy it

it might hurt a little but if you use lots of lube and tell him to go slow it should be ok. i doubt that you’ll bleed unless he just shoves it in.

I really think u are to young . Sorry about that .

At your age, first time, no experience, I’d be worried about ****. Literally, sh!t.