Is there hope for marriage?

I am a recent revert to Islam after getting out of a terrible and abusive marriage. I have three children, including one who is emotionally troubled due to experiences during this marriage. However I really want to remarry and I want a devout and pious man to spend my life with and to start a family again. Some sisters are telling me that I will never find a brother who will marry me in my situation, so tell me Is there any hope?

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  • As salaam

    sister welcome to islam

    welcome to peace

    ya u can have hope

    why not

    Allah(S.W.T)mercy prevails everything

    dissappiontment is equal to kufir

    u should never lose ur hope

    make dua(supplicate)as much as possible

    inshallah,everything will be fine

    sometimes people are tested

    regarding the sisters who told u that u cannot get married anymore

    they are not correct in this case

    they should not discourage u

    if u need any help related to islam mail me

    inshallah i will help u

  • “Some sisters are telling me that I will never find a brother who will marry me in my situation, so tell me Is there any hope?”

    These sisters do not have much knowledge.

    Whereas Allaah said in the Qur’aan, translated :

    15:55. They (the angels) said: “We give you glad tidings in truth. So be not of the despairing ones.”

    1556. [Ibrahim (Abraham)] said: “And who despairs of the Mercy of his Lord except those who are

    astray?”

    One of my muslim brothers recently married an arab woman who had like 5 young children and he had 3 of his own children. Mnay stories like this.

    basically, sister, do you believe in the promise of Allaah ?

    65:2………And whosoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty).

    65:3. And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allah has set a measure for all things.

    If you have goodness in your character and would be a good wife, and you have taqwa/piety, then let your local imaam know you are looking, and Allaah will make a way for you insha’allaah, and whatever Allaah does, he does out of wisdom and mercy and justice and so forth, ie, all his qualities.

    So never lose hope,

    Be patient and seek what you need in this life. Also, let me knbow which country you are in and if I know anyone that might be able to help you, I will let you know wassalaamu alaykum.

  • Assalamu alaikum. You are welcome to Islam. I feel sorry to read your unhappy marriage.Your ex husband is not a good and responsible muslim.I can give advice to you for marriage again because there is always the hope for marriage (1)please continue to understand the qur’an and hadith and obey to all of Allah’s commands and prohibitions in your daily life(such as reciting the qur’an, mandatory prayers,sunah prayers,dzikir and du’a etc as stated in the qur’an and explained in the hadith as the life guide (2)you must keep be patient if unfavourable situation occurred to you and try hard to overcome it optimistically with du’a to Allah and do not be despair and stress.(3)selact your potential next husband by observing (a) his physical appearance,(b)his good track record of ancestor (parents and grandparents),(c)his education,job and his wealth and (d)his good application as good muslim everyday including his behaviour. Among the 4 requirements in line with hadith the most important is no 4 about his daily practice as a good muslim. a devout and pious man to spend life with his wife and children. I convince you will find him with hard effort and du’a to Allah continously. Not all muslim men are unhonest and make terrible and abusive marriage.There are many good muslims in the community who respect,love and help muslim woman

  • this is a bitter truth the thing is sister as a normal human being sometime we tend to trust the mechanism of this world more than the mighty power of the lords of the worlds

    Allah says in the holy quran

    7 (Allah said) “O Zakariya (Zachariah)! Verily, We give you the glad tidings of a son, His name will be Yahya (John). We have given that name to none before (him).”

    8 He said: “My Lord! How can I have a son, when my wife is barren, and I have reached the extreme old age.”

    9 He said: “So (it will be). Your Lord says; It is easy for Me. Certainly I have created you before, when you had been nothing!”

    10 (Zakariya (Zachariah)) said: “My Lord! Appoint for me a sign.” He said: “Your sign is that you shall not speak unto mankind for three nights, though having no bodily defect.”

    i will suggest you to keep your trust in Allah and keep the patience you will get rewarded inshAllah

    p.s never show your weakness to any creature(human beings) of Allah instead of Allah swt inshAllah you will be successful

    i will pray for you that you get a pious brother ameen!

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  • Of course there is hope sister! Come on! Cheer up! I’m sure u will find someone soon.

    Allah is infinit. But it doesn’t mean u have to sit and do noyhing. Search. Ask family.

    I am so proud of u to join islam at this time of media brainwash.

  • there is hope for marriage not to worry Allah is there. dont listen to those some sisters they dont seem realize that Allah is there.

    Insha Allah Allah will bless you with what your heart desires soon

    i mean trust him totally n there is no prayer of yours that cant be answered.

    i mean u r in this situation because Allah knows you can bear it with patience n sincerity because Allah is just n he doesn’t burden any soul more than what it can bear

    When Umar bin Al Khattab RAA was worried when his daughters husband was killed in the battle he went n asked Abu Bakr RAA if he would Marry her He declined then he went to UthmanRAA and asked he said he wasnt ready for it he then went to Rasoolullah SAW n complained Prophet Said O Umar be patient Allah will Provide for a husband better than them

    later Prophet himself married Her. Subhanallah

    Just be patient sister n Seek help from Allah he is always there no matter whoever leaves you n goes Allah is closer to you that your jugular vein

    he is with you Always never lose hope

    Always remember

    HOPE never dies in the heart of a man who has FAITH

    and FAITH always gives birth to HOPE even in the worst of times

    May Allah make this test easy for you n help you

  • One of the matters of Qadr [Divine Destiny] is that Allah [swt] has already written for you who you will marry. You do not need to worry, but be patient and firm in the deen, and Allah [swt] will reward you with a most pious spouse inshallah.

    Salaam.

  • Salam alykum

    peace b on u.

    In the name of Allâh the merciful.

    This is one of the main reasons why islam permits man to have more than one wife. I’m sure you will find a suitable husband.

    I will pray for you after my salah.

    JazakAllâh.

  • Welcome to Islam and i am very sorry about your marriage and i hope your children are doing well,theres always hope for marriage. Islam is the most converted religion and with that being said im sure youll find someone 🙂

  • Sister Y answers mostly kids and teenagers joins ..so it is difficult to find some one here but not impossible.

    serious suggestion for you is to join More and more Islamic organizations.

    Most of our problems can be solved by proper Communication Communication and Communication(Dr maliha lodhi)

    Believe in Allah ,Trust in Him and Faith in Him Alone .He loves you more than anything else in the universe and He does not leave His believers helpless.

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